Is it normal to have these feelings and fears?

68% Normal
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Ok, so me and my husband already have 2 kids. One is 4 and one is 2. My problem lately is I keep thinking about being pregnant and have the urge to have another one.Everytime I seem to get it off my mind I end up dreaming about being pregnant having a baby. We use protection and slip up sometimes. We both agreed if it does happen we'll except it. I dont want another baby in my life right now, but I also cant stop thinking about it and haveing the urge to. I dont even know if I want another one, period because the 2 I have now are such a handful and I dont know if could handle 3. I told my husband that if we did have another one I'd want to start trying a year before my youngest starts school, but I cant stop thinking about it now. but I dont think I could carry the burden of yet another persons life in my hands. I'm already a very paranoid mother, and dont let my kids step 3 feet away from me even playing in the yard, and check on them every 20 min when their sleeping to make sure their breathing and have both their beds in my room cause my husband goes to work at 2 in the morning and im scared of someone breaking in and taking them. And I wont let anyone babysit my my kids except for my own mother and I never let them stay the night. And it goes on and on but back on subject I just dont know what to do. I cant stop thinking about it but I dont want another one cause I dont think I could handle it. IS IT normal?

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68% Normal
Based on 31 votes (21 yes)
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  • Artiewhitefox
    11 years ago

    God in the beginning said be fruitful, and fill the earth. That is what you are feeling. Whatever life that loves giving good even as the Lord gave good will receive joy we in this body cannot feel experiencing it forever.

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    • lufa
      11 years ago

      lol @ these god fanboys

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    You will find a way to deal with three.

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  • Cul-de-sac_Nightmare
    11 years ago

    You're a terrible mother. I hate people like you. You shouldn't have had kids if you're going to fuck them up.

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  • lufa
    11 years ago

    you're a female, of course you want more kids, that's what you're programmed to do-but only do it if you can afford to and have the time to raise them and if you aren't some obese welfare bum, in that case get sterilized.

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  • gargamel
    11 years ago

    You seem pretty confused ma'm. Why don't you guys take some counselling regarding this pregnancy issue? I bet it will help ya to some extent.

    Good Luck!!!

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