Is it normal to have such feelings??

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Is it normal to think about the intimate/sexual life of the person i loved and get really hurt just by the thought of it even after being seperate for approx 3 yr's shes married with two kids and not just her intimate life but her inner life the way she just generally goes through everything everyday,iv found myself thinking about this thing alot and this "thought" is always in my mind so is IIN??

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Based on 42 votes (27 yes)
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  • Ratman2
    7 years ago

    Normal. But you need to move on and create a new life for yourself. That includes finding another woman. Look, I've been there. Took me a while, but I found a second wife. Stop hurting yourself so much, bro. What you are feeling is normal. But dwelling on a past love is not. I wish you the best. :-D

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    • DarnIT
      7 years ago

      Thankyou.....im definitely over her i dont even remember her anymore as for "life" it has been a train wreck after her.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    Being close to someone, and then having that intimacy taken away from you, hurts. So, yes. It is normal that you feel that way. Try to move on if you can. Find someone new to care for.

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    • DarnIT
      11 years ago

      Oh man its good to hear that,over the years iv always thought that i was the only perv who could even think like that about someone u loved and deeply cared for seriously you've lifted great burden off me.

      Thankyou!

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      • Shackleford96
        11 years ago

        I don't understand why you would think that thinking about her would make you a pervert.

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        • DarnIT
          11 years ago

          i could'nt get the right word at that time :) and thanks for your reply

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          • Shackleford96
            11 years ago

            No problem, and I am glad to have helped you :)

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