Is it normal to have such a feeling at an age of 34?

I am a 34 year old male virgin not by choice but didn't have any opportunity. But i feel so frustrated and restless for not having sex with a girl. Eventhouth i havent got engaged in sex with a girl, I am very picky & choosy when it comes to selecting a girl for marriage. Also i have become shy and unable to mingle freely with girls and sometimes find it difficult to face them since i am always worried about what girls think of men like me. But now i find it very hard to control my desires and hence i watch a lot of porn for saisfying my sexual desires and it has become a sort of addiction. Is it the reason for me unable to select a partner?
However in the last 3 to 4 months i am facing a lack of concentration in my job. Please advice me whether such a situation is common for a man of my age and how i can restore my confidence and concentration and get rid of this addiction.

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  • You need to go outside and find someone. You just need somebody to fuck, I mean love. Seriously though, try looking for someone.

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    • jays.mews

      Thanks for your suggestion.The problem is i am not ready for any paid sex

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      • I'm not talking about a prostitute. I'm talking about an actual partner. Someone you'll have a relationship with. It might take a while and some effort. But obviously, you need one.

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