Is it normal to have such a f**ked up family?
My father was a soldier in the army part of the SAS who have bad records by creating psychopaths and people who are mentally damaged beyond repair.
He is now an alcoholic and that has been an incredibly large impact on me, my mum and my bother
When out of the army he got involved in South East London crime and once caught he got out with the blessing of the gang. After factory work turned him into an alcoholic.
My Brother has quite a strong form of autism. He needs his hand to be held in terms of instructions at quite a detailed level. School work being hard.
I was all right... until 3 years ago. I became aware of the reality I was in and sank into depression, later turning suicidal for a time but seeked out help. When going to therapy I was found to have depression autism in the form of aspergers syndrome and dyslexia. I went from As and A*s at school to 1A* 1A and B's... which makes me sound spoilt but I am pretty intelligent. At College it got worse with me missing large parts of it due to depression. I am now on a "gap year" where will start the 2nd year again, next year hoping I am "fixed".
My Aunt on my dads side has BPD. She had 6 Husbands 4 of them very rich. She burns through money but got lots of money in divorce. She's had 8 kids between 5 different fathers. She claimed one husband sexually abused the children to get the house and barred the children from testifying. He was then labelled as a child abuser. The kids when older testified against my Aunt and moved back in with their father.
My Granddad fought in the Korean War, then joined the SAS. He told me a story (age 6) about his job to clear enemy positions by flame thrower
He explained how he killed about 7 families living in these trenches and the screams of women and children. First an accident. But then with the last 3 families he killed intentionally
He's now has alzheimers and can't speak most of the time
My cousin got pregnant at 15, 3 years ago and gave birth to a boy.
She also got in love with a 23 year old man.
He has over 100 convictions, some for domestic abuse. What she saw in this guy I will never know.
Social services took the baby away from her due to his presence. They said she cannot see him and if she stops then she can have her baby back. She said yes. Police followed her. She was lied
My Aunt looks after the child now. My cousin gets to see him for 6 hours a week.
Bruises start to appear on her. A week ago she is raped and beaten by him.
He is put in prison. She wants to be with him.
Social services will soon have the child anonymously adopted.
My 2 other cousins want to kill this man when he gets out. I spend 3 hours trying to stop them. I convince them not to commit murder by planning a murder and the flaws
The stopped most due to cost to do it undetected
So Is This Normal?
The way I want people to vote:
Vote YES if:
They either have a family who is quite bad OR They know of a family like this who a CLOSE friend is part of
Else Vote no