Is it normal to have strange feelings?

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months. We hit it off when we first met, and started talking on Facebook. We developed a crush on each other and then after a month of getting to know each other we hit a relationship. He is really loving, fun and an all-around wonderful guy (handsome too!) and I consider myself very lucky to be with him. However, I have been having these weird feelings lately, like the spark's missing, or that I may think I need my freedom. But when I am single, I'll want a boyfriend. The "OMG" feeling has worn off, and I do not like it when this happens. However I think of possibly being engaged too, or marriage with him. It's like a roller coaster. I don't see myself getting involved with anybody else in the future and I really care about him. I've talked to my parents and sis about it and they said it was nothing to really worry about. It is my first real relationship too, so maybe I just don't understand? I got a job working in retail so could it be the stress of working during the Christmas season? Is it just that we're so used to each other now? Is this normal in a serious relationship?

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  • PrincessOctavia
    9 years ago

    As much as I don't want to admit it, happened in my relationship too. I think it's okay because I still love him all the same. Even if the spark is gone, going on dates or doing something special can bring that feeling back. Of course it won't last but that'll make it a special thing.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    That's your logic arguing with your heart. Sometimes you know what's right but are infatuated with the idea (of love or being a couple) so much you ignore it. If the chemistry isn't there then fling it to the curb... you'll both be happier in the long run.

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    • Wifeleftmetime4dickinassholla
      11 years ago

      Aint that the truth me and my wife have been everyday for 6 years and today we split but i thank itll be better cause she's straight im Bi curious prettymuch i love wearing thongs and she sees a guy aint supposed 2 but if not theywouldnt make em for aguy but i wear female thongs and G-strings but i also love to fuck couples and if u do that u will have other feelings but she liked it but she dnt like another girl eatin her out but its fine an dandy when im getting my throat fucked and another guy is punoshing my asshole and then pulls out and blows off down my throat whilethe other guy fucks my ass hard as hell so that throat and double ass fucking with 2 very very big super fucking huge black dicks but o well trying get me sme dick now but follow ur instinct im supposed to be gay but im o ly half way

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  • cackyhanded90
    12 years ago

    Yes. I've had it and I am glad I don't follow my feelings that much. I am still with the same guy I met almost 3 years ago.

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  • ariannel
    12 years ago

    Yes, this is very normal. That initial rush of falling in love doesn't last forever. Even if that feeling is over, you should still recognize whether you are in love with him or not.

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