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me and my boyfriend are very exclusive, then one day we were at home alone, and it just happened however when we were in the midddle of it he just got up and left., why?
WOW! I think I'm the ONLY person who knows exactly what this is!!! LOL.
It's called the "Fish Filter Technique". I've heard two guys at working talking about this at work. They didn't know I was listening...
It's a psychology-based technique to condition a woman to crave sex in a way she doesn't understand...
I haven't tried it yet, though...too scared. and somewhat skeptical...:)
They were raving about it though...
If you think I'm making this up, do a search online for something like "the fish filter technique cr james"...
Part of it has to do with making a woman obsess (via shock) over "a memory/event" during a time when she had the urge to have sex...
In theory it could work, if it actually makes her obsess over 'what it happened'...
I don't like to stop, so I would never be able to pull it off (no pun intended) :)
I think he either finished or he just lost his concentration or maybe some other chick hit him up and he wanted to make sure he made his rounds?
Ask him. Bet it was performance problems & he was embarrassed. But ask - unless you mean he left for good. In which case, count yourself a lucky he's gone cause that is just damned weird!
so he just got up, got dressed and left without saying a word? Why didn't you ask him where he was going or what he was doing?
If you're still seeing him you should confront him about it.
Either he was scared or felt awkward...or he thought you sucked at it...
If he didn't give you a reason, next time during sex kick him in the dick.
See how he enjoys surprise in the middle of sex too.
when i was 17 i was dating a guy and we were having sex for our first time together. his d*** was wayyy smaller than what i expected and was NOT pleasing me. after we started i realized i just didn't like him in that way and got up and left. never talked to him again. so, here's my advice. if he did that to you then he is rude, just like i had been, and you need to find someone who will not do that to you. and don't let it get you down, because now the guy i walked out on gets girls like its nothing!
The only time I ever did this was the very last time I was sexual with my ex-wife. I was fed up with her lack of participation, which was a sign of much deeper problems in our marriage. We divorced a year later. We should have divorced much sooner.
I bet that he was uncomfortable or afraid he couldn't please you enough. He may have been dissapointed in himself. Make a buch of noise next time and scream his name, he'll like it
I agree, all the above.Either you didnt notice he was done, or he couldnt get it up, or maybe, there was something else and he didnt want to say cause it was about you.I am just guessing, but no thats not normal, he should at least come out and tell you, if hes not mature enough to do that then he shouldnt be having sex or "making out" anyways.
if he has released then getting up is normal.
being as your female i see you wouldnt know after the ejaculation, that the sexual tension goes with it. or maybe he was trying not to get you pregnant, pulled out an ran before he let it out.
Ask him. That's really the only way you're going to know. His answer, and his reaction, not to mention his willingness (or unwillingness) to discuss it, should clearly give you your answer.
If your just Boyfriend and Girlfriend , you really cant blame him. He may be nervouse , scared , or even embaressed. If you see him resist it , or become more tense , it is because he feels your going to fast.
He may be embarresed or scared to tell you that he feels this way.
If he didn't tell you anything as to why he left... No it is not normal and there is something wrong. I don't want to freak you out but people do not usually just get up away from that intimate moment with someone and leave.
Mabey he was scarred or it was emberrasing to him. mabey he just had second thoughts.