Is it normal to have so much hate.

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My mother for all my life has chosen her man over me. My mother, her boyfriend and I have moved to this remote, in the middle of no where, house. There is not even a bus near. It is awful and I hate the countryside aswell, too quiet. We she is getting at me for getting a job when I am doing all I can to get one. She thinks it is as easy to get a job as it was in her day. She made me move from a city to this stupid little countryside all because she wanted to be with her man. This has happened before and she allowed her other boyfriend to hit me. This is just an awful cycle that she can not see and I want to see her pay for it. Is it normal to want to see her crash and burn and when I move out I never want to see her again?

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Based on 36 votes (27 yes)
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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    She's an anchor bro. You need to go solo. Summon up some courage and hit the road, make your own life.

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  • lyricald01
    10 years ago

    I try to get out but I need money. We are in the middle of no where and I cant even get a bus. Around here are no jobs and it's too difficult to get one.

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  • DADNSCAL
    10 years ago

    Ditto to all the above posts. Grow up and accept some responsibility and seek your independence.

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  • iEatZombies_
    10 years ago

    It's certainly normal to be resentful and angry. You should definitely try to find a way out of the situation, and then you should reach a state of acceptance for your own best interest.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Nothing good ever came from hate.

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  • Moonbow
    10 years ago

    How old are you? If you're old enough that she expects you to get a job, you must be over 18, so what the hell are you doing living with your mommy? If you're not 18 and she keeps abusing you emotionally, report her to child protective services.

    Why didn't you report your mother for allowing the bastard to hit you to child protective services? If you had, there's a good possibility they'd both would be in jail now. If you're under 18, as soon as you reach 18, leave home and within a few years, she'll be calling you and begging you to come see her, or whatever. And when she does, remind her of all those time she chose some sorry POS man over you and never see her again!

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    • lyricald01
      10 years ago

      I am 18 buy how the heck can I move out without a job?

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      • Moonbow
        10 years ago

        How you considered joining the military?

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