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Is it normal to have so little to say, that a girl who you know likes you, don't want to be you're girlfriend? And making up silly excuses to avoid seeing you?
Sometimes people appreciate a bit of quietness. Me and my brother are polar opposites. I'm the one who'll chat to anyone and won't shut up whereas he never knows what to say. Yet he married his first girlfriend and I've never even been close to being engaged.
why dont you have anything to say? dont you have any interests? maybe its not that you dont have anything to say which bores her, maybe you are just boring to her... dont take that as an insult.. just a thought.
if you can afford it go to the movies and afterwards you can talk about it. i like to do this.
I have to be honest I split up with a guy because of how quiet he was. I am very loud and out-spoken so I guess I need someone that can handle that. Everybody is different though, if you're naturally that quiet you will find someone for you, don't worry she's obviously not the one
Awe, sometimes people have trouble finding a topic to talk about, and sometimes even just keeping a conversation going can be hard. But if she can't help you out with the conversations, by at least trying to carry them out... then it's not entirely your fault. You guy's might just not have enough in common to talk about. Maybe that's the reason she's avoiding you.
The attraction might be there, but if you can't go further then that... you might be wasting your time. But you could also bring this up to her, and see what she says. If she still has no way of helping you out, or even understanding, then she's really not worth it.
Don't sweat it though. And if it helps, try to build your conversation skills, or figure some of her common interests out, and gain information on them to give you more to talk about. Plus, it might win her over.