Is it normal to have sexual urges after a breakup ?

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I'm in love with my best friend. We were in a long distance relationship for a year and a few months in which period we never met as he's been busy with his job.
We broke up actually he broke up with me because I was suffering from depression and he wanted me to deal it on my own with my counsellors and doctors as he didn't wish me to be dependent on him. I don't know if what he did was right or no. But he says we have a chance in the future once I'm fine.
I love him alot but lately I've been friends with a guy and I feel sexually attracted towards him. We shared a couple of make outs. However I don't know I'm still in love with my best friend at the same time I'm so sexually frustrated that I find it hard to run away from my friends intense touch.
I feel guilty but I lose my mind with my friend. It's like I want my best friend and me to be together but my friends say that sexual attraction is hardest to handle in a relation but he's left you so you can have a bit of your self indulgence. I hope someone helps!thanks alot.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    move on. your x doesnt love you if they left when you needed them. treat yourself to a new guy

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  • bay
    12 years ago

    i dont thinkk your ex will care if you really loved someone else if she left you honestly get over it

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  • double_up
    12 years ago

    If he broke up with you because of your depression. see moomus54852 is right move on. long distant relationships is not worth it. keep strong and move towards a relationship with the othr guy in you story. and i wish you the best of luck.

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    Personally I think your boyfriend was wrong to break up with you because of your depression. He should've been there for you and supporting you, not bailing out. I'd move forward.

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    • unicorncury
      12 years ago

      Thanks for replying.... I feel the same but it's like you know you love someone you cant be with them but nor can you leave them. I feel it has alot to do with my family matter,you see my father is very abusive and I would say alot like the guy I love. I hate the fact that Im in love with someone whose my fathers replica.

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