Is it normal to have sexual fantasies about your father in law?

I am 21 years old. I am having sexual fantasies about my father in law. I am unhappy with my fiancé. He doesn't look at me like he used to and he cheats on me. Anyways, it all started a couple months after I started dating my fiancé we were all having a good time and his father was drunk me him and his father were sitting in the back of the car I was in the middle and he started rubbing my legs I thought it was so inappropriate because he's my finances father. He did that more and more when he drank then he stopped so I thought nothing of it. Then, recently he started again but not only when he drinks. Every night me his wife and him watch a movie and his wife always falls asleep so when she is sleeping he will do sexual signals toward me and winks at me. I think he is really hot. I usually don't look at older men like I look at him. I dream about him and I always think about doing it with him. What should I do?

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  • cinderellasundergarments

    Gross

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  • Tealights

    My opinion is going to be a bit harsh.

    Either talk to your fiancé, or cancel the wedding and stop dating for a while. Build your self-esteem and have boundaries. You have no idea what you're looking for in a man and just falling in love with the feeling of being wanted. ANY man would want you because of sex, especially if you give it up right away; however sex does not equal love. Your father-in-law is horny, that's it. He doesn't love his wife, and he doesn't respect you or the relationship you have with his son; he's just hoping you're easy.

    If you do leave your fiancé, aim for a man who genuinely respects and loves you; but first, love yourself, because you can't find that guy if you're falling for any asswipe who shows you sexual attention.

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  • funlovingbitch

    Well if you feel like that towards him sit Down and chat about it with him he probably feel the same way about you unless his is queer

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