Is it normal to have sex with your siblings?

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My brother and I shared the same room. We had oral sex on several occasions. My age was 7-9 he was 13-15years old.
He also had intercouse with my sister multiple times. Her age was 5-12. He was 10-16.

He did get in trouble with the authories after my sister confessed this to a school counselor.

Although he initiated it and talked me into sucking his penis, he didn't phyically force me to do so. I did it willingly and for that I'm guilty and ashamed.

But is it common for siblings to engage in sexual activities together?

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Based on 51 votes (39 yes)
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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    I don't know. I've never heard of anything like this before. It should get asked more often on IIN.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Ehh, if he had been 8, maybe (though it's still potentially abusive). At 10-16 though, having sex with a 5-12 year old is super problematic.

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  • teendicksuckers
    5 years ago

    We always have

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  • D-angerous
    11 years ago

    I had sex with my cousin who was 10 and i was 14 i did use a condom from her dads stash and we have stayed close friends and still do "it" either oral sex or vaginal

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    He molested both you and your sister. You should report him as well, who knows how many others he could be doing this too.

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    • ifeel86
      11 years ago

      My sister reported it to her h.s. counselor who reported it to the police. Nothing happened with ot though because it was considered a family issue not a legal one.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    "I did it willingly and for that I'm guilty and ashamed. "

    There's problem. You were of an age where you couldn't really decide that for yourself. He convinced you.

    Just because he didn't physically force you doesn't mean you weren't psychologically forced to express your love sexually rather than as a sibling might normally do.

    What you need to come to terms with is that you WERE raped. It's easier I know to blame yourself, rather than blaming someone you love... but he betrayed your love by convincing you that you wanted it.

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    • ifeel86
      11 years ago

      What shames me the most, even more that the fact that I enjoyed it at times, is that I didn't bring it to anyones attention. If I had, my sister may have not had to endure it for 7 years......

      7-9 years old is old enough to know its wrong and say no. I enjoyed the pleasure I got from it. That was my choice.

      I wouldn't consider it blaming myself. That would be taking the victim stance, and I Refuse to be a victim. I think of it more as taking ownership for the part I had in it. If I see myself as helpless in the past, I'll probably see myself as helpless in the future.

      I only partly blame him as well. My uncle molested him, so he's to blame also. Geez what a bunch of trailer trash huh :)

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago

        that's not your fault.

        just because your body had an orgasm doesn't mean you fully consented.

        it's not your fault he convinced you otherwise

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  • HugeJohnson
    11 years ago

    you were molested..

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  • Couman
    11 years ago

    From what I've heard a little fooling around is quite common, but it doesn't usually go as far as intercourse. It's also much more problematic with a big age difference like that.

    And... I'm afraid this might sound creepy, but I have to ask: Why do you think you feel guilty? Because to me it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong.

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    • ifeel86
      11 years ago

      Its not creepy to ask someone about there feelings :)
      I feel guilty because because I enjoyed him sucking my wee wee. It sickens me to even type that.
      After I would climax though, I felt shame. Even now shame always follows a climax.

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      • Couman
        11 years ago

        You know, lots of guys feel shame, or at least some kind of regret immediately after an orgasm. It's something to do with the sudden fall-off in arousal.

        Of course I don't mean to say you should be happy about those experiences, you feel how you feel. But I hope you don't jump to the conclusion that anything unsatisfactory or seemingly odd about your sex life is because you're "damaged".

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  • Gelmurag
    11 years ago

    "But is it common for siblings to engage in sexual activities together?" Yes.

    But I', quite curious as to how your sister gained a year. See if she was 5-12, and he was 10-16, that starts out at a 5 year difference. But 12 + 5 = 17, not 16.

    So the only logical conclusion is that he killed your sister, and replaced her with an older model while you were sleeping.

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    • ifeel86
      11 years ago

      youre obviously better at math than me :)

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    • Couman
      11 years ago

      OR... it could be an artifact of how ages are rounded down. Like if the actual ranges were 5.7-12.3 and 10.2-16.8 or some such.

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