Is it normal to have sex with someone you don't like in a dream?

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Well about a week ago I had a dream about a woman I know.
she is (forgive my french) a total bitch and we constantly at each others throats (No we are not married)

But in my dream we didn't seem to hate each other as we were clearly enjoying each others company.

This dream kind of scares me, yeah she's hot but that don't change the fact that I hate her, has anyone else experienced this before, tell me what you think.

(I apologise if my grammar is not to your standards, I'm German, you try learning a second language)

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You can only be nasty to each other for so long before you inevitably do the nasty.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    I like your disclaimer. I wouldn't have even known had you not said anything :)

    As for your question, I have two words for you: Sexual Tension.

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  • The-Lewis-317
    11 years ago

    Yes NoraBaker I still hate her, but now I have something to laugh about when she's bitching at me, this experience is confusing.
    Thanks for the story, it made me laugh.

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    • PapzBSlim
      11 years ago

      Tell her you had a sexual dream about her. This will either cause her to never talk to you again so you two will not constantly be at each others throats, or you two may get along better because she thinks you like her. If this is a co-worker, please refrain before you get a sexual harassment claim filed against you. By the way, for English being your second language, you write better than the average American who speaks English lol.

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  • NoraBaker
    11 years ago

    It's happened to me. I once had a dream about a movie actor that really displeased me, I can't remember who it was, it's one of those secondary role actors. Well, he fucked me and when I woke up I had that same feeling you have, but all the hate and annoyance were fantastically gone. I never fully understood it. Do you still hate her?

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  • topaz1211
    11 years ago

    Subconsciously you are attracted to this woman and the dream is your minds way of releasing the tension.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    it's called sexual tension.

    your welcome

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  • yes,really
    11 years ago

    Yes. I had a dream I had sex with Don Vito when I was 13 and although he is repulsing, it was the best sex I've had for years to come.

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  • bumblecreek
    11 years ago

    it's normal. once i had a dream that 3 whores i don't like took turns giving me head.

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Well then tell her every detail about the dream - that ought to add a whole new dimension to things.

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  • Dad
    11 years ago

    Love and hate circuitry of the brain is linked.
    You can quite easily feel hate towards someone you feel overwhelming love towards (and visa-versa)

    Many females dream of being raped by an aggressive man; this does not mean they would ever want such a horror in reality.

    Your dreams, and from what you stated, imply that you do indeed hate this 'woman', the making 'love' proves it.

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    • WordWizard
      11 years ago

      I beg to differ. A lot of women are into this thing. They get a thrill from the thought. They do not actually want to be captured but they want a man to restrain and rape them. Also this is not all women just a percent of them. So what you are saying is untrue. It go to S&M.

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      • Dad
        11 years ago

        Actually the 'rape' example is not ideal, I agree.
        Sexual fantasies are just that, no love or hate implied.

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        • WordWizard
          11 years ago

          It is if you are into S&M and they have a lot of women who love this kind of thing of being bound gagged even , burned, stabbed and cut. Some like the idea of being bit till they bleed and much of it go’s into vampirism and that whole little fantasy women seem to fall for.

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          • Dad
            11 years ago

            Hmm, possible the lower percentage of women hey? Like one in every 10,000.

            The actresses you see online are paid and even more importantly - acting!

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            • WordWizard
              11 years ago

              They even have clubs for it.

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            • WordWizard
              11 years ago

              http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM

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            • WordWizard
              11 years ago

              They have communities for it. A lot of women do it. You think this is not a big thing but it is. Not conventional sex is very popular. I personally think some of stems from childhood trauma during pubesint period of life. Also they have men who are into it as well. Men are usually on the more sadist and dominate site while women are almost always on the more submissive wanting to be abused side. You just do not know where to look. It is not a small percent.

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  • xxwrong-as-rainxx
    11 years ago

    I've had quite a few sex dreams about ppl i either hated or did not find attractive lol its creepy and unpleasant, but i chalk it up to my sleeping brain taking random things in my head and twisted them up. At least your dream was about a hot chic, i couldnt look at my boss for a week after dreaming i had blown him >.<

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    • WordWizard
      11 years ago

      Oh that souns "wrong as rain".

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    "No we are not married"

    Hahaha! :D

    I tend to think that dreams don't *always* mean anything. However, Sigmund Freud often linked sex with ideas of aggression, which could just mean that you hate her, which you know already :P

    Your English is perfectly good, by the way :)

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago

    Anything can happen in a dream.

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