Is it normal to have sex with one person for your whole life?

I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years now, and we're moving in together in a weeks time and I don't to curse us or anything but I really can't see us breaking up. Before we went out we were both virgins and have only slept with each other.

is it normal that if we do end up married or whatever that we only sleep with one person for the rest of our lives.
And... is it normal to wonder what it'd be like to sleep with someone else.

I would never ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, just wondering if it's normal to think about it.

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Based on 364 votes (313 yes)
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Comments ( 24 )
  • Somone

    Eva_Braun88: that it happened to other people doesn't mean it's going to happen to them!

    JoethePlayerz: call it however u like it's cheating! and what's the need to fool arround with a handfull of people?what's wrong with just one? I think that he only slept with one makes it more special!

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  • firetruck

    Do dogs count?

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    • Somone

      deaugh! LOL

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  • hengiska

    Merkel: if you are comparing women and cars, why don't you buy one and let girls go?

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  • Somone

    its normal and actually kind of cool...

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  • That's how it's suposta be

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  • armyant1

    You should definetly be someone who has sex with only one person, it's about damn time I hear about someone who's sexual and they have sex with only 1 person.

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  • lovelyfeathers818

    You sound like a sweetheart...do you have a brother? =p

    No, but most people dream about having what you have, dude. So cherish it. Yes, its normal to have sex with only one person for the rest of your life. Thats how it should be. Its also normal to think about having sex with other people, as long as you don't act on those emotions. Good luck with your girl!

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  • yes its normal, both r. If it bothers u jus quit thinking about them, ( it will take a while though) sleeping wit one person the rest of your life is also pretty awesome i admire that cuz u didnt waste your virginity

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  • Daydreamer_4

    I'm in the same situation but i figure if we're happy, we're happy :) that's all that matters in the end.

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  • x1frosty16

    It's normal to think about it. But curiosity killed the cat. Try to throw them out when they come into your head. And don't ever tell your girlfriend you have or do think because even if it's just thoughts she probably would take it bad. I would...but she also probably thinks about it too. And one word for is it normal to have sex with one person the rest of your life....BIBLE. IT's how it was meant to be. Wish everyone could be that way.

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  • rclay1992

    you are lucky i never even had a gf

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  • ppask0918

    Yes it it my husband and I have been married 18 years and together 20. I virgin when we meet and I have on had sex with him. I have heard stories from other friends and sometime I use to wonder would it be different. The only thing that stops me from wondering, was that I know my husband loves me and how would I feel if I did it with someone who didn't.

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  • mary127

    i wish i had the chance to lose my viriginity to my boyfriend. but yes this is normal. and sex isnt everything.. so dont worry about other people. id much rather have one person who loves me than several people just for sex.

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  • afinefrenzy

    your a great guy for not cheating on your gf. I'm in the same situation. neither of us would ever cheat on eachother. we were both virgins too when we met. It's normal to think like this, but please don't act on it because it seems like what you've got is the real deal!

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  • hengiska

    I and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 years too and I am always scared that I will marry him and after 10 years he will tell me that he hasn't enjoyed his life and we will get divorced..I am 18 and he is 19 and we are talking bout our future but I'm afraid a bit...try it and you will see:-)

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  • more2c711

    If that's how you feel, then it's normal for you. Not everyone has to sleep around to be satisfied. If you have found your soul mate, consider yourself to be lucky. Dating gets very old.

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  • nikki25

    duh?

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  • Ryan7395

    Totally normal to think about it.

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  • merkel204

    would you buy a car with out test driving all kinds

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    • Somone

      that's stupid.. girls are not cars... and there's no possible way you could test drive every woman..

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  • Some people can't intellectually differentiate love from sex. They're chasing a unicorn they think is real and most live miserable lives. If YOU THINK this is what you want and you'll be happy for it, sounds great. Go for it. My aunt thinks she's a Russian princess.

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  • You should have messed around with other people first before you made things serious. Because only being with one person will weigh on both of your minds on what it would be like to have sex with other people. Not saying either of you will cheat but...it's happened to other couples.

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  • JoethePlayerz

    Dude it ain't normal. I can tell you from experience that there is something special with different women. It's ok to marry her... but dude, do out there and dump your load around. She doesn't have to know and there's absolutely nothing to feel guilty about. It ain't cheating - it is called spreading the love!

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