Is it normal to have sex with my best friend?

Ok well I've just recently started having sex with my best friend 4 months ago. But he is also my next door neighbor who is dating my other best friend. They have been dating for 2 years. My neighbor and I have been friends for 16 years! But I think I love him. Is this normal?

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61% Normal
Based on 191 votes (116 yes)
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  • LiamHale

    You'll end up alone if you continue the way your are.

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  • soccer2

    You should stop. This could ruin your friendship with the other person if they find out. Which could potentially ruin things between u and the person ur sleeping with

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  • woah321

    It's normal to fall in love with your bestfriend, it happens. But since he's dating your other best friend you should probably not being haveing sex with him. It would just ruin your relationships with both of those people.

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  • LoveYouBabe

    This love triangle sucks! I feel so bad for you.

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  • wondering18

    Thanks for making me feel like a piece of shit!

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  • koifish

    You sound like a whore. And Im trying to be nice when I say that.

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  • wondering18

    Aw shucks you people are so nice thanks I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing cause I can't stop the sex is great!

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  • Doodoodude

    Seriously. You're over thinking this. You're acting like a whore. You're not in love with him and you're showing yourself no respect, just as he is showing you no respect. Also, neither of you are showing his girlfriend any respect! At this point I could give a fuck less about you or him, but she deserves to know. It's a sad situation and you need to grow up and tell his GF what's been going on. If you don't, than you're not only being a slut... You're being a bitch. And in modern times, it's normal to be a slutty bitch. So yes... It's normal. Unfortunately.

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  • SiliconChip

    There is a more basic answer - that is - is it an underhanded and nasty thing to do to your female best friend... Yep.

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  • KotoniChan

    I mean if you both got caught then it would be on both of you, thus losing TWO friends, like come on now. Its normal to love your best friends. But if you're really worked up about this, then just cut him off. Seriously is nothing but two people life will carry on with out them.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    I wish i could have sex with my best friend. My trusty mustard bottle

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  • EAT_IT

    This happens to me all the time!

    They keep wanting to date me when all I was doing was looking for some food in their fridge.

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  • vSlay3r

    What u do is u record hours of videos and sell them to fox network.....or to pornhub either way u end up making tons of money

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  • ariannel

    Yes its normal. Is it the right thing to do? NO. Dont be one of those girls who has sex with guys who are in a relationship. You hurt others and cheapen yourself by doing it.

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  • bookmaniac

    shit, if he's a good friend - fuck him. have a blast. just stay friends afterwards. It won't last, but you probably won't regret it.

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  • ghostmau5

    If he'll cheat on his current girl with you, he'll cheat on you, too. Keep that in mind if he does leave her for you.

    Also, why the hell would you do that to your friend? If anything even slightly sexual or romantic in nature happened to me and my friend's bf, I'd be telling them (and I sure as hell wouldn't instigate it).

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  • dbwm

    I did this, for a while its a lot of fun, but it became very damaging. You'll do it regardless of what anyone says, so hope it works out better for you

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  • You'll ruin your friendship.
    but if he want's to be more than friends why don't you go for it?
    but if it doesn't work out..then it's pretty awkward.

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  • CrazyNiteOwl

    um i was in the same situation except i wasn't horrible like you and keep it going, we both told my friend and we all sorted it out. I'm trying to be as nice as possible here but you are not a good friend and he is not a good boyfriend. you need to tell his gf about this, it's very selfish of you to keep doing this behind her back just to keep yourself happy. if you want to keep sleeping with him don't you think you should make him choose instead of hurting your friend this way?
    and are you seriously in love with a guy who would treat his girl friend like this?
    you need to make a choice, stop or make him choose. and i mean like yesterday

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  • Proudfear

    everything but your sleeping with your friends boyfrend

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  • U should stopthat pretty me

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  • BlOoDkRaZyBeAsT

    ummm ya imma agree with soccer2 you should stop, you knew they were dating and if you are really their friend you will step out of the picture. Plus it could really hurt both of them if things blew up with the friend who is dating him or her, i guarentee it wouldnt be very preety O.0

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  • Sexualadvice

    Part one  God some of you people and the advice you give is a reality check as to how dangerously some of you are mentally.   Look as for advice; you’re not the first to experience this situation, now if I read you right you discovered homosexuality, probably with your buddy who is dating this girl?  First are you jealous of him with her or her with him?  Plus you think your in love with him, be certain here, first love , the feeling of love is commonly  mistakenly thought to be present when actually it’s the lust you are feeling, actually loving it while your buddies is in the direct visual reception, your brain simultaneously chemically analyzing both new experiences in stimulations your body is responding to that are sometimes grouped together, labeling it under sexual.   So while experiencing sexual stimulation intense enough, certainly can fool you big time! Leading you to believe your in love, ok here is an example, have you ever heard they old saying they were making love?  Let’s make love? You’ve got to be kidding yourself, sure lets a million people make love and why not give it all to someone like Osama Binladen, if anybody needed love big time, its this guy don’t you think?  Now tell me again how to make love?  There are certain things you need to decide, who you want to have sexual relations with, you can have it with both if either other partner is agreeable, As many guys like seeing two women engaged in sex, there are as many women who like watching two guys engaged in sex. You see something here, it is not normal, believe me its normal.    That’s all nonsense like an idiot telling someone that their sexual preference is wrong, because theirs is, too so too is yours. Please, tell me God said so, I say prove it, the bible is not proof, its 100% faith what someone wrote down is the actual verbatim of  God, yours maybe not mine, considering men have been orally pleasing each other, while using other various positions and methods perfected long ago and still used today to aid their sexual experience as its been doing for males pleasure one another other for  thousands of years before Christ was even born to a virgin. I believe in God just not the ones who say god said so, then god has never been able to make up his mind, hay how many versions of god said so are there?  Each labeled religious origination has what god said, though everyone has uncanny similarities, the differences can be life threatening, my god threaten someone’s life,  dam him or her for their choice in sexual preferences. So exactly how many gods are their? Just one, I don’t fear him, my god is as originally written long time ago, now so tainted by people and their opinions, the guys who

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  • You're not a "piece of shit." The first ones to post are always the high and mighty do-gooders. That's not reality and it would be really interesting to learn what skeletons they're hiding.
    You're fine. Have fun.

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  • wondering18

    I know I should stop but its so hard! And I'm a girl and he is a man thank you very much

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  • EvilHomer15

    If you're both male - then no, it's not normal.

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