Is it normal to have sex with best friend and to regret it?

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I'm gay and he's gay too. I met that friend of mine 5 months ago at my hardest time(right after my mother passed away) and we started making phone calls lasting hours and hours, then we came together to have a cup of tea and i think we enjoyed it really much. our meetings started to be more often as time passed by and and one night we were a little drunk and went to my place, and had sex. when on phone we were talking about sex but neither of us thought we could go that far. then we had sex twice again and the thing is, we know we both like it. but he doesn't want to lead a gay life, and doesn't want to be attached to me as he believes this would make him closer to gay world. that's why we decided not to have sex again, but hugging each other ,lying on the bed, holding hands or such things are free... but no kissing. is it normal to be that close but also that far?

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  • Stairy
    10 years ago

    As he wants to leave the gay world, you don't even supposed to be huggging

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  • Short4Words
    10 years ago

    No. You have to see he has to make a choice whether to love you or not for who you may be. Ask him to make up his mind, because it's not fair to you to be kept around even though he doesn't want to give you his full affection, because who knows when or if he'll ever will, to be frank. That being said I don't know anything about relationships or living a double life so you can shove everything I said out the window.

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