Is it "normal" to have sex with an older man and stay at his house?

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I am a 23-year-old woman who is "friends" with a 39-year-old man.

We've known one another for over two years and counting.

I've slept with him multiple times and have even stayed at his house for a few days.

However, we're not in a relationship and he doesn't call me his "girlfriend."

He wants someone with goals and who's responsible; I'm struggling to get on my feet and be independent.

I LOVE older men [no, I don't believe I have a so-called "daddy complex"] and would even consider moving in with -- or marrying -- this man if he asked...

Is what I'm going through considered "normal," at least in your opinion?

Our society has issues with anyone who doesn't fit into a little box of rules, and, sadly, even though it's more acceptable for older men to date younger women, they're often called "perverts," "cradle robbers," etc.

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Based on 13 votes (10 yes)
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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    It's normal enough as long as you're prepared to accept that this relationship is liable to never move beyond casual sex. Most people I know who've been in this position start to develop feelings and that often causes problems.

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    • Gelmurag
      12 years ago

      I agree, are you asking us about the age difference, or asking us about the casual aspect of your relationship with this man? If the latter, I support dappled's opinion.

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