Is it normal to have self-doubt?

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Here's the thing: it's been 2 years since my last long term relationship, which lasted 6 years. I am now in a relationship where I have moved in and have been together for 6 months. He treats me like a princess, shows me admiration, and is constantly showing me affection but almost every day I question and have self doubt about the relationship. My question to you, the reader is this: Is it normal for someone who wants to be loved and shown admiration/affection to be doubting myself so much or am I simply guarding myself from being hurt?

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Based on 33 votes (28 yes)
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  • Elyod88
    10 years ago

    Perfectly normal, assuming that you were hurt in your previous relationship. Trasure the partner you have now :)

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  • LostN_Herhead
    12 years ago

    Thanks for all the feedback. I'm just hoping and praying that this to will pass and it won't have a negative influence on my new relationship.

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  • isabel
    12 years ago

    let the past go or it will kill your happiness. he loves you love him back too and pray to God to make it last.

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    Well you answered your own question in the comment above.
    You love him, and possibly feel vulnerable. Your doubting yourself as a way to protect yourself from getting hurt. That's what it sounds like to me anyways. At first I was wondering the same thing as joybird. But you answered that. So, I'd say its normal to protect your feelings.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I hope you love him or you shouldn't have moved in.

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    • LostN_Herhead
      12 years ago

      I do... :)

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