Is it normal to have second thoughts about dating a girl?

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It's more complicated than it sounds. I went on a few dates with a girl, and it's basically stopped. We never dated, just went on dates. Whenever we talk, I get mixed signals about what she thinks, and now it's gone silent. Now, there's another girl I know, and I see her every day, and she has been flirting with me a lot. I really want to ask the girl I see all the time out, but I'm worried that the girl I was on dates with before will be mad. Is it normal for me to hold off asking this girl out if I think the other girl will get mad?

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Based on 53 votes (40 yes)
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  • Gorillaz23
    13 years ago

    I'm not cheating! We never went on a date, and I'm trying to avoid cheating by asking this question.

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  • Gorillaz23
    13 years ago

    Thanks everyone. Everything has been worked out now.

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    • kawasakirider
      13 years ago

      Glad to hear it dude.

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  • kawasakirider
    13 years ago

    I wouldn't worry too much about the no-signal-girl. If she's not communicating with you, she might not want a relationship after all. Besides, if you only went on a few dates, then you probably don't consider her to be your girlfriend anyway. Since it's not cheating, then there's no reason why you can't pursue the girl that has taken an interest in you.

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  • Mastersash
    13 years ago

    go for the one ranking closest to a 10 ;). Do it.

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  • esreverlogic
    13 years ago

    You really need to talk to both of them up front and tell them what your thoughts are. If you don't, neither you or them will know whats going on, or how to react.

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  • mini
    13 years ago

    Lol I mean give her a chance! Loool

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  • onlyemperor
    13 years ago

    May be you should invite the no-signal-girl somewhere once more to see if it works. If not.. well, you never really dated as you say, so you can stay mates, idk.

    or may be the girl is afraid of a relationship

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  • mini
    13 years ago

    Give the no-signal-girl a sign maybe she's shy or nervous, sheesh why do men cheat all the time!

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