Is it normal to have relations with a guy in a committed relationship

I joined a dating site and met a guy, we hit it off and saw each other quite a bit, I fell for him and he did all the normal cute things guys do when they're interested after about 4-5 months I found out he had a girlfriend of a couple years but at that point I really like him and decided to keep our thing going its been 2 years now I am his side girl, we have almost a normal relationship except he hides the fact what we have from her she even comments and make insinuations about me, I feel bad but i fell in love with him so because of the feelings it complicates things I'm not sure what to do

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Based on 48 votes (15 yes)
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Comments ( 6 )
  • Arm0se

    That ain't right. You should tell the other girl what he's done :/

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  • Bake34

    It's called self respect honey and you don't have any.

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  • FloatYourBoat

    Its not fair on his girlfriend but he's as much if not more to blame than you are. You aren't a slut and it doesn't mean you don't have self respect but you need to end it for the sake of you and his girlfriend, screw the dick who is playing you both.

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  • Steve2.00

    I believe it's called "being a slut".

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  • MassBurnouts

    I'm not here to judge...
    Imagine yourself in her shoes though?

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  • Needtoknow73

    I wasn't looking to do that it just happened and I got myself in a predicament and love got in the way I can't help that I fell in love with him I'm trying to move on and when I find someone I will end it

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