Is it normal to have random women warn you about how you dress?

This has been happening to me since I was in middle school. But the other day my skirt caught on something as I was walking to my car and a lady pulled her car over to tell me, before proceeding to tell me that it would just be better if I got longer skirts. And she was at least in her mid-forties, going to pick her daughter up from the studio I was leaving. And over the summer when I was at work, waiting for my friend to get off her shift since we carpool, I was sitting on a bench in the employee parking lot, on my phone and minding my own business, this kid's mom (or possibly even a younger grandmother) pulls over by me, instead of her child, and shouts to me until she gets my attention. When she does, she tells me I need to buy some real shorts because she can see my butt. While I was beyond annoyed in both (and many more) cases, it seemed like they were trying to help me. Does that happen to a lot of young women?

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  • Jayemen

    Hot older sister had this happen often. Women would see her/us in a store or something, especially during the Summer, and say things like, don't you think you're showing a little much, who are you trying to impress, you remind me of a streetwalker..And, if she wore her favorite, green, cotton shorts that went halfway up her ass in the back, and way up on the sides, hear "Why don't you go home and put on something decent", "Do you think your ass is out enough?".

    She was also just into her teaching career, so, dressed appropriately at school and during the year. Summer and off time was her time to dress comfy, sexy, and show off the goods as much as she wanted to.

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  • pizzabrowniesushi

    occasionally the fatguy Hawaiian shirts and cargo shorts get some hate but I give zero fucks

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  • Rihyae

    Wear what you want with pride! I'm sure you look stunning. On the days I choose to, I wear my Gothic Lolita dresses and I don't care if I get weird looks. Most people compliment it anyway.

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  • liamouse3

    hmmm. this used to happen to me 24/7 on facebook. i deleted it though years ago. but honestly wear what makes you feel comfortable. i honestly feel extremely uncomfortable when i am looked at in a sexual way or if my pictures come out too sexy. i want to be cute not sexy. i do not wear short shorts because they make me feel like people are staring at my but. and that really bothers me. now skirts i will wear skirts but they have to be by a knees but that is because i have long legs.

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  • Nastynate

    "Flaunt it baby, flaunt it!" -bealistock

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  • Wear what you want to fear. Flaunt it baby.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Depends.

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