Is it normal to have random strangers laughing at you

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Whenever i go out, I have either unwanted male attention, or when i feel stressed or vulnerable,i catch at least one person make a funny look or laugh or stare at me but i always trigger an amount of reaction from people, i wish it would happen much less often. I used to be very self-conscious to the point i would not go out as much as i want

Can you tell honestly if there is something wrong with my face:
I don't care about 'accept yourself' bullshit, i do accept myself, it seems like others not

I was wondering also if it is not my attitude, sthg i do that i am not aware of that is considered odd.

Note: I am someone very expressive, i've been told i can be read like an open book, Is this what makes me weird/not normal?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    I can't begin to form an opinion or pass any sort of judgement about whether they're all laughing at you or you're being paranoid without seeing a picture.

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    I cant tell if there is something "wrong " with your face you didnt post a pic.
    it could be a little paranoid ...they may not be laughing at you but you think they are because you are so self conscious

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    I get a lot of reactions too. Either unwanted male attention, admiration from people wanting to say hi or take a picture or the most common: stare, stare stare and then more staring. Sometimes without a clue about why they are staring, but mostly it's probably because they think I look weird. Being a freakishly tall female with overdosed make-up and multi-coloured hair along with a displeased frown.

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  • TareBear20
    9 years ago

    I go through the same exact stress every day, especially lately .. No ones looking at you funny, it's probably in your head. Your brain is very capable of playing real like tricks on you and can fool you into thinking the whole room is staring at you. Imagination is a scary and powerful tool. You need to figure out how to reassure yourself that it's in your head, I do it every day. For instance, I don't look my best in my IIN picture. I look far better in person, especially without that crooked smile of mine. Once you remind yourself that it's in your head, it will fade. I promise you that.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    -_-

    It's getting annoying when people are like "LOOK AT MEH! TELLZ MEH WHAT YOU THINK!"

    Then just expect us to have some sort of crystal ball in IIN that lets us see your face.

    WE CAN'T SEE YOU IF YOU DON'T SHOW US.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    How can you be sure that they are laughing about you? It could all be coincidental and, they're laughing about something else. You remind me do much of my mother. She always believes that people are laughing about her. It has effected her so much that there are certain places that she can no longer go to.

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