Is it normal to have oral sex with your employer?

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when i turned 18 i was working in a tool and die shop. the owner, a man of about 50, invited me out after work to celebrate. we went to a nice restaurant, and since he knew the owner, i was served wine with a great dinner. i started working for him in junior high at about 15. he always treated me well and gave me raises throughout the years, and was buying a new car and looking for an apartment. he said he hoped i'd be with the company for many years, and he had been waiting for me to turn 18 so he could give me some added responsability. we were both drunk. he said now that i was "legal" he would require a favor from me. starting tonight when we went out to his cadillac he wanted a blow job! i laughed. he said he was not kidding and if i wanted to keep my job i would do what he asked. i had know idea how to preform oral sex and said so. he said i would learn fast like i did with all the other jobs i did at work. well. i gaged and choked, but i did my best to keep my job. for 3 years i am on call, so to speak. he calls me in his office and lets me know what i need to do for him. sometimes more then once a day! he pays me very well and i love my job. i even like him and don't mind doing what his wife won't. it has become "normal!" is this normal to anyone else out there??

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Justsomejerk

11 years ago | pl

Huge abuse of power.

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dom180

11 years ago | pl

Am I the only one who thinks "bullshit"? Or at least hopes "bullshit"...

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- thetoolmaker
  
  11 years ago
  
  well, you can think whatever you want, but i am living this life! all i was asking are there any other folks out there caught in my situtation?? what do i care what you think?? bet you never anything you found distasteful, but had to do it anyway. if so, your very lucky! i didn't EVER say i hated it either. have u ever sucked a nice cock?
  
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shuggy-chan

11 years ago

WOW, you know it actually him you can ruin, if you get prove, you can sue, or blackmail his ass. i mean that is grounds for jail time. he got you drunk as an 18 year old, and uses his posistion to get sexual favors.

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- thetoolmaker
  
  11 years ago
  
  your right, of course. that has crossed my mind. when he got me drunk was a long time ago and by now i could never prove it. blackmail is just not something i could do to him because i know and really like his wife and daughter. it would kill them. i could always quit my job and move on, but i bet there is not another toolmaker in the country that's makes the money i make. AND, i actually like the guy! Am i gay?? I have a beautiful girlfriend and I'm not attracted to men, so???
  
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nightmare28

11 years ago

Nothing in life is for free.

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- thetoolmaker
  
  11 years ago
  
  i guess i could try a law suit, but i don't have proof. his word against mine. have you ever sucked a dick?
  
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  - Mackwoodie67
    
    3 years ago
    
    It sounds pretty casual lol. If it ain't bad,who cares? I'd do it.
    
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  - nightmare28
    
    11 years ago
    
    I'm a straight male, never sucked or wanted to suck a dick. A lawsuit might spark a scandal if you do it right but if you have no witnesses or any other kind of proof, you have no chance, although if you got his DNA "sample" then you have a chance. But I think you misunderstood my comment, what I meant was that nobody is going to just give you raises, promote you, buy you things and spend money on you just because you are a nice person or got a nice smile.
    
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    - thetoolmaker
      
      11 years ago
      
      i realize all that. and not only does he like what i do for him he depends on me in his business. i could run the place. i love his wife and family and they think the world of me. if i "had a case" i'm not so sure i would want to hurt all these people. it's not worth it to me!!
      
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hillbilly333

6 years ago

That all depends on how he treated me (if I was in his situation, --- If he treated me good then I'd say I ahh feel odd about but you've been treating me fairly good. I suppose I'll suck your penis "John" and if you like it then I'll suck your penis as many times as you'd like me too ) I'd be ready to suck his cock any time he'd let me suck it from then on in .

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Legion

11 years ago

I heard of situations like this before, but usually, the employee is a girl.

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Imsupernormal

11 years ago

I would say it's normal. A girl's got to do what a girl's got to do to keep a job. ;)

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- thetoolmaker
  
  11 years ago
  
  or, in my case i happen to be a guy. i was wondering how many readers of this site have had the same situtation, and how common it is. probably more common then we think!
  
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AssBurgers

11 years ago

You sound like a dumb bimbo.

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- thetoolmaker
  
  11 years ago
  
  is that the best you can do? you sound like your jealous. you just wish you were here so i could take care of you!
  
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  - AssBurgers
    
    11 years ago
    
    Not really, I prefer to get my dick sucked by women who aren't whores.
    
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    - thetoolmaker
      
      11 years ago
      
      well, i love women. BUT i'm here to tell you there are some women that are good at it, BUT a man is the best I ever had because a man knows what a man likes. most women just want to get it over with!!
      
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ccjigsaw

11 years ago

I read an IIN story where a girl wanted to be a prostitute but get to choose her partners. If you're cool with this then fine I guess... You kinda got what she wanted except better I suppose. I wouldn't do it however...

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Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

11 years ago

you might be of age but what he demanded isn't legal

normally it's considered sexual harassment. however since you're completely willing it seems, it's really a matter of prostitution.

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bristexai

11 years ago

You are nothing but a filthy faggot you are nothing

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- thetoolmaker
  
  11 years ago
  
  and your a what? perhaps a priest? or just perfect in every way! I'm not even gay. not sure i'm even bi. i have a beautiful girlfriend that i plan to marry and have at least 4 kids! a faggot?? i don't think so, and I'm sure not filthy!! your an asshole and make me laugh out loud!
  
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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

So you are performing sexual favours for monetary gain?

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- thetoolmaker
  
  11 years ago
  
  ya, i guess so. beats being out of work like many people i know. what do you think you would do?? sucking a dick is not such a bad thing. would you rather starve?
  
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  - kelili
    
    11 years ago
    
    If you actually like him then then it's sort of ok. Most people who are replying to this post are under 20. They don't have much experience and see life in black and white so don't give a shit about what they're all saying. Sometimes you got to make choices
    
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    - thetoolmaker
      
      11 years ago
      
      like i said, and i know this sounds funny, but he treats me like a member of the family. i have keys to their home and a beautiful cottage in northern michigan. he bought a new boat because i wanted it! his wife is a vey sweet lady, but is not into sex anymore. my choice would never be to hurt his family, in many ways he is a very nice guy. everyone in the business just loves this guy!! maybe i'm bi, but i have a beautiful girlfriend that i will probably marry. my question from the beginning was not to be judged by all these assholes, but was wondering if there were others out there that were in a simular situtation??? and if it is common??
      
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      - kelili
        
        11 years ago
        
        I don't know if it's common. I've heard other stories like that. You're not the only one that's for sure.
        
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      - Legion
        
        11 years ago
        
        Does your girlfriend have any idea this is going on?
        
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