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Guys ask me out pretty often but I have no idea what to do on a date. I just sit there and act awkward but am I supposed to cuddle? or what? I always feel like they think I am uncaring or whatever but I am just nervous because I don't want to come on to strong, WHat do I do on a date?
I usually just say a bit about myself... get to know them a little more too. Ask them about their family, if they have any brothers/sisters, what they like to do for fun... etc.
Its normal to be nervous though. I get like that sometimes too. Just talk.
Talk. Ask them about something you're interested in (it could be music, sport, films, TV, your work, education if you're still in it... anything), and then ask them what they think about that topic. If they know nothing about it, ask them what they like and then talk about that. Mostly dates are for getting to know about each other and actually talking is the best way to do that.
If it's going well, you can judge the situation and initiate however much physical contact you want. If he's receptive to it, have as much contact as you're comfortable with. If he's not, retreat to not touching and continue talking to avoid making it awkward. If he initiates physical contact, reciprocate if you want it but shift away if you don't. If you don't want it and you do shift away, again: keep talking to avoid making it awkward. He should get the message.
If you like him, smile alot. Ask questions to get conversation going. You'll be surprised where that takes you.
Open up.
Dive in.
Be free.