Is it normal to have nightmares about your crush?

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For the past few nights, I have been having a lot of nightmares about my crush. Things aren't so great between us. Our relationship is great, but we are in a complicated, almost dangerous situation. Long story...
I usually forget the contents of these nightmares within seconds of waking up but I remember one from this morning. Basically I dropped by his work and he slipped a note in my hand. It said how nice I was and how he likes etc. but he just cannot carry our relationship on and he's really sorry. I was really upset.
So is it normal to have nightmares about a crush or someone who's close to you romantically?

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Based on 84 votes (61 yes)
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  • Vanguard
    11 years ago

    Maybe your subconscious is telling you something. If things aren't working out and or putting you in a dangerous situation, you should leave.

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    I'd wonder if this dangerous crush you describe is worth the anxiety if it is giving you nightmares.

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  • redoctober
    11 years ago

    I'd say just kill him so you can be future proof this won't ever happen.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    11 years ago

    I've had this before. I think its probably because you're worried/paranoid that he doesn't like you. So, you're actually subconsciously thinking about it and its showing up in your dreams. Don't panic though. Remember, it is just a dream. If you really want a real relationship with him though, maybe you could ask.

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    I don't why this wouldn't be normal. Anything can happen in a dream.

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  • Metazoa
    11 years ago

    Just work it up to a relationship with the person. The worse thing you can do is back out of it and nvr fully know how it would of went between you two. You might just be overly scared of being rejected and you are putting too much negative thought into it. Know however, that you two indeed might not ever get into a bf & gf relationship. But you never know unless you try getting there to begin with. Even the most successful people fail at times, they just never give up and learn from their failures / mistakes. I know for fact though that even if it doesn't work out you can def find someone else.

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    • Justsomejerk
      11 years ago

      Don't stress, it's just a dream.

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