Is it normal to have never masturbated in my entire life?

Not even once? I've tried but nothing happens.

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38% Normal
Based on 58 votes (22 yes)
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  • Boojum

    I don't understand your question. You say you've 'tried', which I read as meaning that you've stimulated your genitals. If that's so, then you have masturbated.

    Do you actually mean that you've never been able to give yourself an orgasm?

    If you're a guy and sexually mature, that would be pretty unusual. My guess would be that you're either doing it in a way that doesn't provide the stimulation you need for long enough, you're on some sort of medication that affects your sexual response, or there's some sort of psychological block that prevents you from allowing an orgasm to happen.

    If you're a woman, then you're not unusual at all. Many women have huge problems figuring out how to give themselves an orgasm, and researchers believe that as many as 15% of women have never had an orgasm in their whole lives. There are many medications which make it more difficult or impossible to have an orgasm; antidepresants are notorious for this. If you're not taking any prescription meds, then it's most likely the problem is one of technique and/or mindset. I suggest you Google Betty Dodson and read through the articles in the 'Learn How to Orgasm' section of her website.

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  • Somenormie

    Its normal if you've never spewed out gel from the meat.

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    • litelander8

      Ew.

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  • Bazinga

    Wanking is the way, the truth, and the light. Perhaps a reputable sex therapist could help you. You must take some initiative here; a life without orgasms is an empty life indeed.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Good for you.

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  • AC_NXS

    If you’ve tried then you’ve masturbated, just not orgasmed. I agree with the first comment, are you just not sexually mature? If you haven’t reached a certain age, you would be unable to ejaculate. Wait a few more years and that ability will come. (Pun intended)

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  • IGiveHelpCauseINeedHelp

    it is normal and Good for your physical and mental health (about masturbating).

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  • litelander8

    I never enjoyed masturbating until I figured it out a couple years ago. I was 25.

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  • SwickDinging

    If you've tried then you have masturbated.

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  • daydreamer394

    I think you're missing out, but you don't mention whether you've had sex - I assume not. Either way it's not a bad thing as I'm sure you have your priorities in order.

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  • MrToxic

    I agree with Boojum. Essentially, you should do some research into the matter and don't be afraid to speak to your general practitioner for more information from a medical aspect

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  • Kirlia

    I’ve felt this way before

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  • CDmale4fem

    You are what 13 or 14 yrs old. ?

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  • randypete

    it is not normal

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