Is it normal to have never hand a date, a girlfriend, or got laid

you can lie about being a virgin, you're only 19. there are literally 40 yr old virgins out there.

you should just embrace being a virgin...when you meet the right girl she is going to b happy and grateful

And if u wanna get laid that bad just go to sum party r club ad ur bound to pick up a chick there..,if ur that desperate u wnt mind if she's a 3

Being good at sports has nothing to do with it.

I'm 22 and still a virgin. I've never had a boyfriend but I know it'll happen eventually. I just want to be done with college now before having a boyfriend truthfully. I want to put my career ahead. :)

Don't worry be happy... and just be patient. You'll meet that girl.

Mate ya 19 don't worry it will happen u sud b proud ya not a statistic kids round my ends r like 11 gals avin kids at 14 is common I was the same I was 19 I went all boys boarding school till 17 I felt like u do now I started work decided to stop away one weekend with some notts lads in Nottingham UK its like a ratio of 10 gals to 1 man I went out for the kill scored did everything with this gal in a church yard now looking back I regret it that I dint wait for my solemate I moved up notts the very next weekend and on average I had 2 different gals each weekend for 6 months living there I was a male slut but I lernt how to do it very well now I'm 34 with my solemate two kids I fancy my Mrs just as .much now than I ever have b proud and confidence will come good luck at ya first conquest

Don't be bothered by your friends teasing and stop worrying about it! If you do want a partner, you'll eventually find one. If you don't, that's fine too.

First of all you've got to change your attitude about yourself. If you believe you're a loser, you'll be a loser. Value yourself for who you are, not for what others want you to be. Then you've got to start with what you put last, having girls as friends. Then you'll loosen up and have the guts to ask one out. Good luck and keep us posted.

You sound like the male version of my self

Don't be patient. This bothers you itensely or you wouldn't be asking strangers for advice over the internet. You need to get this part of your life squared away before you turn 20 and then 25 then 30 35 40.... I lost a lot of years man. Try to find male friends good with girls. And do what I said about the books and videos. You might feel like a loser watching them but oveercome it.

Download dating manuals and speed seduction videos. You don't have to be an asshole and take advantage but it sounds like you need some help getting the knack of communicating with the opposite sex. Maybe my story will help you feel better:

I didn't even kiss a girl until 35. I'm not a freak. I'm actually extremely intelligent. And people say I'm a very good looking guy. But I was too caught up in my drug addiction from age 15 to pursue real relationships. The pain was indescribable. Once I'd left high school and my conditionpersisted through college I sunk into a deep depression. My drug use escalated. Ii felt I'd missed the boat. Hw am I gooing to learn at 25+ then 30+ what everyone should have in high school? Well, my selfloathing peaked and I threw my drugs away. I was miserable. I was in withdrawal for months. It's supposed to last a couple weeks but my habit was astoiundng. I was addicted to substances you'vve probably never heard of. No one thought I'd live. Slowly during my stay in treatment a new person began to emerge. It helped that I'd been thrown from isolation into a safe milieu. Afterwards I went to NA and AA. I got online and I downloaded every 'seduction maunal' speed seduction series and david de angelo book and video I could find. I had to learn intellectually to do what others had been emotionally conditioned to do. And you know what happened? She picked me. A woman dating a former military man and martial artist who'd once broken a mans neck in a barfight over a women began texting me nonstop. She dropped him for me and I lived in terror for a couple weeeks. I was lucky I suppose. This womans patience was angelic. Don't expect your first time to be everything you ever dreamed of don't let it happenw ith a tough bitch. She could have slain me with one harsh word but it all worked out. We parted and I found another. And since then there have been more. I don't often think about the person I was.
How I ramble. Myadvice: do what I did. I don't care what anyone here says about the morality. Read up on seduction speed seduction humor and dating. You adon't have to become an asshole. What you DO have to do is learn intellectually the knack of communicating with women. that kind of banter Im sure you wish you could engage in. Trust me - it's easier than you think but you need to start with 'how to'. Find a way to break your isolation and don't torment yourself. You'll be ok.
Oh, and a tanning package and membership at the gym or martial arts schol might help too.
Good luck man! You'll be ok.

I took my boyfriend virginity when he was 22. Its not that big of a deal...

get ffrreesshhhh and go to a party find a girl and make sure she knows she has your attention keep secrets with her make her feel special ask if she wants to sit down put ur arm around her and get a blanket start feelen em tittyys and then ask if she wwants to go "up stairs" then you fuck her right after dont give her so much attention dont let her think u want to date her or anything rediculous like that then move onto the next bidd

You have to do something about this issue, your friends sound like they are useless so it's all about you . Also the world has changed , I respect anyone who is a virgin given it's their choice (example religious reasons etc.. ) but if you want to sleep with a girl and just didn't have the chance to than it's a different story , 19 is a sick age , you are supposed to go out , have fun and enjoy yourself man. I'm 26 and only now am I really starting to date girls on a serious level. Don't be shy with girls , they actually want you to talk to them.

Goooo for itt

I would'nt worry. Porn is crazy good these days...

Dude chill out its not all its cracked up to be, just go for it.... put a little effort into it... Chicks like guys that come up to them and start conversation.. And understand the chances of getting laid are not on your side. This means doent put all your effort into just one chick... The more chicks you try to get the better chance you have it's SIMPLE MATH (10% of 10 is 1, 10% of 1000 is 100) understand!!!!

cheer up man that is not a big problem, you will find a gurl sooner or later

Dont be ashamed, my little brother didnt loose his v-card till he was 22. He is good looking and a very out going guy. But he just never really had a girl friend, or went on dates, or had sex. He met his wife(whom i introduced him to) and now he is very happy. He lost his virginity to her, and she is the love of his life. Hang in there, you will find someone. Even if you dont feel like you have confidance, act like you think you do. Thats very attractive, when a guy is comfidant. And if you do this, soon you will gain true confidance. Good luck :) btw im a 21 year old girl, so take my word for it, it will happen. :)

Why do you assume you'll never have a girlfriend?
Moreover, since when do all women detest male virgins?

Just because your friends care about that shit doesn't mean everyone does. They sound immature to me...they actually probably don't even know it bothers you THAT much.

I was digging for some fossils a couple of years ago and a philosoraptor came out of nowhere and shed some enlightenment and told me

"if we were to dominate our urge to fuck eachothers brains out, then we dont have to worry about self destructing newborns jumping at our faces in 21/12/2012.

I took his wisdom and i feel great that im not contributing to humanity's dark hours

Don't fret.
You can't wait around for a relationship to find you.

Advice that I, too, should adhere.

I met my future and present wife when I was 24. I never had a GF until then and was a virgin,just relax man, life has a way of taking its own course on its own schedule.