Is it normal to have never had a love relationship

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I am a 19 year old guy and never had a love love life or any relationship. In high school I was looked at as the weird and quiet kid and never had that many friends. I have a couple friends now but not one is a girl :/ I see guys everyday holding hands and kissing there girlfriends and i feel sad and depressed knowing that it is something i have never experienced and probably never will.
I never really talked to girls and when I did it felt like they wanted nothing to do with me. I is very embarrassing being the only one out of all the guys I know That hasn't lost his virginity yet. The only time I don't feel this is when i'm drunk. It really sucks that I don't know how to get a girlfriend and if I ever did I wouldn't know what to do in a relationship.
I guess that i'm never suppose to find love :(

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  • Calidoush
    12 years ago

    Maybe u need to look at ur lifestyle. Are u social? etc. maybe this calls for a change in lifestyle.

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  • DolphinAngel
    12 years ago

    I was like that in the past and felt really depressed because I never had a girlfriend... But nowadays I really don't care anymore!

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  • suckonthis9
    12 years ago

    You had said that, "I feel sad and depressed knowing that it is something I have never experienced and probably never will."
    This is a defeatist attitude and it is detrimental to what you desire.
    Why not try something like posting publicly your aspirations towards a relationship and telling any prospective females that you desire more insight towards a successful relationship.

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  • TheBalance
    12 years ago

    You're only 19, don't be depressed about it. Don't think about doing something about it, just do it. Smile, take it easy, and just have fun. If you're nice enough there will be a girl in your life before you know it. A tip: sex is about confidence and understanding; the understanding to do what your partner wants (and not what they don't want), and the confidence to do it. Also you may want to take it easy with the drinking.

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  • beangoo
    12 years ago

    i'm 27 and have never had a girlfriend, gone on a date, or had sex. i'm the loser not you. one day it will come.

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    • hundredthousand
      12 years ago

      You're not a loser. You're trying to help someone without any gain to your own self. Quite the opposite to a loser in my book. To me, a loser is someone who takes anything they want and doesn't even appreciate it. They are the wasters who are only selfish, not you who tries to help. You're much better than that.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      This is when I step in and tell you that you aren't a loser.
      You don't need a partner to achieve, you don't need dates to achieve, you don't need sex to achieve.

      Don't call yourself a loser for nor experiencing those things.

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