Is it normal to have never had a love life

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I am a 19 year old male.I have never had a girfreind, a date, a first kiss, or got laid. When I was in grade school I was looked as the weird kid. Everyone was having dates getting laid and partying. Whenever had tryed to get in a conversation with a girl it never lasted 20 secounds. I dont have good looks, I dont have much money, and im not good in conversation. I have no traits that would make a woman like me. It seems I fit in the catagory that would be in the tv show Undatable.
It feels like I mist some class in school that went of these things.
All my coeworkers and freinds all talk about the times they have had girlfreinds and had sex. I dont even have any girls I can call friends. What girl is going to want a weird virgin that has nothing to offer.

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  • missy18
    12 years ago

    For all you know there's a girl equivalent of you out there. Just need to find the right people :)

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  • GeorgeMcBob
    12 years ago

    Try the internet. There are plenty of hot Russian girls who'll do anything to you for a green card.

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  • .Linkin.Park.
    12 years ago

    Don't push so hard on yourself! You're still young! You haven't even hit 20! There's still plenty of time. There's someone out there for everyone! You just have to find them. ^_^

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  • Gezzatron
    12 years ago

    I'm 21 and have never been in love or had a boyfriend before but I have kissed a few guys before.. Even lost my virginity to a random... And have to regrets.. I think you should just wait.. Someone will come along, the furthest I can go in a relationship with a guy is just being good friends

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  • [email protected]
    12 years ago

    yea i think thats unnormal srs
    most kids these days lose theyre virginity at 13 so sorry budddy but u gotta be ready to do it
    lol wish i waited

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  • zimmerman
    12 years ago

    I am good looking, I've had dates, I party and I'm often well rounded. I'm also 19, straight, and never had a first kiss or a love life either. Take your time.

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  • tbiM20
    12 years ago

    I'm 23, female, so here's my 2 cents. Don't worry about it. Loosen up an get some confidence for who you are. Do you have a favorite hobby? Go find people who like the same. Feel like you could do more for appearances? Go get a haircut, or chat up a guy (or woman) working in a department store you like, get him to help you pick some stuff out. DON'T WORRY ABOUT COMPARING EVERYONE ELSE'S LIFE TO YOURS. I was the awkward chick in high school who was kinda nerdy and kinda shy, pretty average in appearances but I really needed peoples' approval. So what did I do? I lost my virginity at 15. Didn't change a damn thing. Couple years later I decided to hell with them all, started dressing how I wanted, eating what I wanted (within healthy reason), and going where I wanted (again, within safe reason). I got confident and happy with myself. And my friends supported that.

    So I guess I'm trying to tell you to say to hell with how they live, do what makes YOU happy and don't try to fit yourself into someone else's standards.

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    • rclay1992
      12 years ago

      I dont find that many woman at the gun range or a the fishing lake. some people think im wierd becouse of that.
      I do live the way I wan to live but its not helping my situation.

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    I've never been with anyone before, though I have kissed a few times. It sounds like you have low self-esteem. Don't mind your co-workers. It's not all about getting "laid". People who only think of sex are low. Don't be like that. Love is about much more than sex. It's beautiful and should be cherished. Just be yourself, keep that in mind, think positively and I'm sure you'll find someone for you.

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  • iamacheeseburger
    12 years ago

    Just wait; the way I look at it is there's someone for everyone you just have to look. It may seem hopeless, but that's how everyone feels before they find the love of their life. I was depressed for months, feeling like I would never find the one, but I finally found my other half and I'm happier than ever. It will come to you too.

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