Is it normal to have never had a girlfriend by the age of 19?

Hey, I'm 18 years old and turning 19 in late February and have never been in a relationship or kissed a girl for that matter.

Just so you know the type of guy I am, for the most part of my life i was overweight until my junior year in high school. I lost the weight but didn't lose my fear of approaching woman with it. I still think of myself as the same chubby shy guy i used to be. Since I lost the weight i have gained many new friends but no luck relationship wise.

I never really tried asking woman out because I tend to over think their response, which ends with me backing out in fear of rejection.

I have had some opportunities for relationships during my senior year in high school but didn't take them partly because I wasn't interested in the girl or her rep wasn't that very well held up in school.

Can anybody relate to me or provide some words of wisdom to ease my troubled spirit..
Feel free to make fun of me as well, Any feedback is appreciated haha.

PS- If you are wondering, from what girls have told me I am a fairly handsome guy.( I have a picture posted on my page if you want to know what I look like.

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Comments ( 17 )
  • Weight has nothing to do with it. I knew plenty of fat, ugly, stupid losers who could fill the back of their souped-up pickup trucks with all the girlfriends they've had. It's all about being a jerk. The more of a jerk you are, the easier it is to get a girlfriend.

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  • verbalvampire

    Hey, just got to say that is absolutely normal bro... no worries, you will find a girl out there just like you I am sure, or one at least interested in you, it's always a little awkward fucking a girl that has already been fucked, then you gotta deal with thoughts racing through your head about "oh fuck, what if he was better"... stuff like "what if my penis is smaller", that would umm come along with the higher number count of men shes laid, the more thoughts u have like that... that is normal though, so you're going to have to do a lot of sexual book-work to feel confident, that is how i did it... go check out the female orgasm black book, it should make you feel very confident for your sexual part of your relationship, i hope this helps you man... and good job bro for keeping it clean, i really would like to congratulate you on being such a clean man, im a guy aswell... but man, danggg high-five bro, lots of love here from verbalvampire xD no-homo, but hugs... lol... peace bro if you wanna hit me up and talk to me more, because im funny it's [email protected] or on xfire at verbalvampire peace.

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  • NeonRainbow

    If you're not ready, don't rush yourself. You'll know when you've found "the one".

    It's better to have a couple really good relationships, than a shitload of bad ones.

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  • Alice97

    It's uncommon, so I guess that makes it somewhat abnormal, but it isn't wrong or bad either. In fact I think it shows that you are smart. Whatever girl you end up with will be lucky to have you, since you haven't been with any others. I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 19 -so don't feel like you're the only one :)

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  • Pisslan616

    I'm 19 and I haven't had a girlfriend before. I'm quiet and awkward. I have been told you need confidence to attract girls but I have never been a particularly confident person.

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  • fuckevery1

    dont worry bout it bro there is sum1 out there for u trust me i talk to sum girls sumtimes dey say no but u know what just keep your head up ima shy guy to a little chubby but i know dudes bigger then me that had girlfriends

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  • SirTannen

    Sadly, what MaskedGunman said is true, us nice guys never really get a girlfriend, but that's just the way things are.

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  • aussiewolf

    chicks dig confidence.

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  • steph19913

    Omgg y'all are adorable I wish I could be friends with all of you .. And don't worry about you have the rest of your life I'm your age too we have a long time

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  • NickNick

    happy b-day!:)

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  • ven067

    I can relate to you. However I've always been skinny for most of my entire life but now that i'm a senior in high school i've bulked up a bit by working out on the weekends. But I still have the same fear you do of asking girls out.

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  • SamuraiPeeper

    Normal, kinda like me.

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  • farmerswife899

    Dont worry some girls like that in a guy. Some girls find it intreging and mysterious. Im sure you'll find someone!

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  • thatoneguy666

    dude you think thats bad, i dont even know how to kiss a girl never mind worrying about rejection...so yeah i totally relate to ya (and like superfireplantzombieman i am also overweight) hopefully you feel better knowing that there is more people out there with the same problem ;)

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  • bbbr1234

    Im the same way and have friends like that are the sme way. I dont no what to say but there are others like you out there that have the same problem

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  • efields90

    its fine. dont worry about it!

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  • SuperFirePlantZombieMan

    I have a similar problem. I'm also 18 years old, i am still overweight though. I don't have any female friends at all.

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