Is it normal to have never been drunk or high at 18?

Never had a girlfriend either, but I don't mind that one as much. I've never been offered weed. I don't have friends friends that smoke (really no friends at all, but some acquaintances I talk to). Don't go to parties. I really just lead a boring life. These are experiences 13 year olds go through that I haven't had yet.

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  • charli.m

    There's nothing wrong with not having had these experiences.. I'm 29 and never done either. Make your own choice, one way or the other. It's your life.

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  • Goomats

    Why would you rather be offered weed or alcohol than have a girlfriend?

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  • vigorousjammer

    This is totally normal.

    I didn't try weed until I was 24, and I didn't drink until I was 17. Only one more year and I would have been in your situation.
    Also, I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 18, and even after that, I was never able to have a steady relationship... at least not for longer than 2 months.

    I say just live your life and don't try to force anything. Go with the flow and do what comes naturally, whatever happens, happens, right? you'll be a lot happier that way. :)

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  • Cash

    Getting drunk made me less shy and weed put me in the hospital.

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  • thr

    The first time I was drunk was a month after I turned 18, and in the 3 years that followed I was drunk 3 times more. As for weed, I wouldn't know who to go to to get it, though my peers seemed to know when we were 16.

    Get some friends and try to experience the things you want to experience in a good way.

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  • ThisIsImpossible

    Try making friends? I dont think this is normal, especially if you want to try these things. There's nothing wrong or bad about not doing them though. If you live near Austin, Texas we can pop all your cherries Friday night.

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