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I'm a 19 year old male, and I currently have three girls online, I feel kinda bad, cause I feel like I'm cheating on them. :( I love them all equally, and I love to talk to each of them. And they all make me so happy when I talk to them. =^_^= But I just feel really confused. My question is, am I a bad person for doing this?
When you get a girlfriend in real life you won't have time for any of the 3 online ones. An online relationship that you intend to KEEP online isn't real anyway in my opinion, so if you want to keep talking to all 3 I don't think its a big deal. Maybe just tell them though that you don't mind if they date in real life, so that you're being fair and not holding them back.
If you loved them then you wouldn't be playing with their feelings and making them think they are the only one. Karmas gonna get u!
Online? I've had 3 girls in the same bed with me. Get back to us when you have a real problem. Hint: 3 girls in bed with you ISN'T a problem.
Be honest. If they are ok with it, then ok.
Remember... what goes around, comes around.
It feels like cheating, because it is cheating. It doesn't make you a bad person, though. But you should probably be honest with them about it. There's nothing wrong with an open relationship as long as you're not keeping it a secret that you're seeing other girls.
I used to play in forums on a dating site and it seems common practice to have more than 1 on the go. It's more productive and gives you a better chance to find somebody where it will work.
Until something materializes, you are just playing the field. Nothing wrong with that. People even go on a few dates and make sure they are really giving it a go with a person before they drop the others.
I agree with Mel. Anyone can find a list of online girlfriends. Your not a bad person you probably just get bored of one person at times so move onto the other ones.