Is it normal to have mixed feelings about your bf/gf?

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I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months and we we're so into each other at first always wanting to hang out and spend time together. Then it starts slowing down a bit which i'm sure is normal.

But, lately it seems like i'll go through these periods where i have mixed feelings towards him. Some days i'll really enjoy the time we spend together, other days he annoys me to death to the point i just want to get up and leave. Or i even start questioning if he's the right guy for me.

He has this habit of being too touchy feely, and hovering over me a lot while we're watching a movie. And i am not a fan of all that at all, i can't stand it half the time. Other times, he can be really childish and won't stop tickling me or whatever no matter how many times i tell him to stop.

It just goes back and forth like that a lot lately.

So, is it normal to be feeling this way?

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Based on 89 votes (76 yes)
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  • chatter289
    12 years ago

    You should be happy that he is touchy and feely with you, you have no idea how many women wish their men would do that to them, be grateful, if not, let him be with someone who will appreciate him for the 'annoying' things you don't like. And find someone who you will be happy with and won't irritate you as much

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  • nondanta
    12 years ago

    Once you lose him/her. You'll miss all these things that you call annoying.

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  • worried78
    12 years ago

    It is normal. You are no longer as into him as he is into you...the more you pull back the harder he tries to keep your attention and the more annoyed you get. If I was in your shoes I'd break it off instead of drawing it out any more.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    He is a guy and most guys need contact with you!

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  • Seancaliforniaboy
    12 years ago

    Dont worry totally normal! Ive been dating my girlfriend for 1 month and i usually question it... If you want to stop, tell him. Im hapoy the way we are and she treats me like that too and i love it! He really loves you and is showing you that bye doing that! Do what you think is right! Hope this helped! :)

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