Is it normal to have mixed feelings?

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Well, there is this boy and we started talking more and started becoming good friends. I know he has liked this girl for 2 years, and he said he still have a little feelings for her, but they're not as bad as they used to be.

I told him I liked him, and he said it is cute, but he doesn't say anything back, he didn't say he liked me back. Bascily, I have mixed feelings for him and another boy who likes me. I don't know who to choose, wouldn't that basically class as 'second best'?.

Is it normal to have mixed feelings? I am so confused! what should I do? help:$

Talk to him and ask him if he feels the same way. 6
Yes, it's normal. 3
No, it's not normal. 0
Ask him out. 1
Wait for him to ask you. 0
Go for the boy who likes you. 7
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  • [email protected]
    12 years ago

    WHAT ARE YOU!!Something like 9,10Yrs.OLD???!!!!

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    • smallandinlove
      12 years ago

      Bit harsh?

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  • OnThisEpisodeofLife
    12 years ago

    You don't want to be chasing a dude who doesn't like you. You'll just end up crying in the night time after a hard basketball practice with your dirty, sweaty practice uniform on with 3 hours worth of homework to do as you eat the same frozen dinner listening to Boyz II Men heartbreak songs until midnight on that old slow Window's Desktop Computer. Then, exhausted, you make your way to bed only to get 3 hours of sleep which makes you look like a troll in the morning which then makes you less desirable for any man thus hurting your self esteem. Thus creating a spiral of sadness and listening to sad 90's R&B songs until midnight. Only 3 years later will you realize how stupid you were for going after a guy who doesn't like you and has a girlfriend that he's sleeping with . Only then will you regret even liking him at all or even thinking about starting a relationship with him. Only then will you realize you're worth more than a dream or a fantasy and that you deserve a reality, a reality of love. Give it some time. Let him gooooo! Move on to real love. Find that love in Christ alone.

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    • smallandinlove
      12 years ago

      Thanks<3

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    Figure out what it is you want and go for that.

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