Is it normal to have low self confidance

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I here girls say they don't think they are pretty, but they are clearly fishing for compliments.

I never complain about myself in public. I only tell that I am self concious to my boyfriend. I can't have sex with the lights on, and I can't have sex without a shirt on.

He has threatened to break up with me, because when I'm sitting down and have tummy roles I reject him cuddleing. I feel bad for him:( he tells me I'm beautiful. But I have a stubborn part in my brain that says otherwise.

I also here girls say that my boyfriend is a "cubby chaser" the girls that say this is my idea of perfect. Size2 pants and sizeS shirts.

When I look I'm the mirror, I'm not happy. I have dreams of slicing my tummy and theighs open and let all the fat out. I am size 5 in pants and M in shirts. And 36C bra size:/ basicly a cow.

am I normal? Cause I don't think so.

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  • michiegirl
    14 years ago

    I used to b 220 lbs, I am now I'm between 120. But even when I was heavy when I was confident around guys .. They loved it!! Let me lay it out for u plain as day- nothing is more of a turn off than shying away, covering ur tummy, lights out to be naked etc!I used to b that way until I dated a guy who did that. It was wierd. Bottom line is ur boyfriend knows what size u r he knows what to expect uber ur clothes. He likes u , chances r any imperfections he sees as cute or endearing. Think about it like this... Is there sometimg on him most girls wouldn't like? Big ears, freckles, moles? Chances r what ever it is U don't mind them, or u may even like them.... Right?

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  • froggy123000
    14 years ago

    Not only are you normal, you seem to have the ideal body! Well, maybe not a size 0, you are still a healthy weight/size!

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  • unicorn123
    12 years ago

    Quit complaining! Just thank god your not 300 pounds!! lol!

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  • nat200
    14 years ago

    Wow judging by ur size I should just jump off a cliff

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Your most defenetly not a cow.

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  • musicbox123
    14 years ago

    first of all, you sound beautiful to
    me! it's is however, totally normal to feel self concious. however, youre just the right size it sounds like and you don't need to worry at all!!! you can rest assured that your boyfriend loves you the way you are and I promise you that he would never EVER want you to change yourself!!! just sit back and trust him when he tells you you're beautiful!!! that's all that should matter:)

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  • tommybowers
    14 years ago

    Normal? Somewhat. Healthy? Huh uh! My guess is that you probably have some type of eating disorder. Vid that is so, then losing the weight will avail you nothing but a skinny body that you see as fat. You'll always see fat if you don't address what i think may be a disorder.

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  • randomjelly
    14 years ago

    Ridiculous.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Wow!!! I am deffidently eye oppened!

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  • fattymoocow
    14 years ago

    Wow. You and I are exactly alike. I feel exactly like everything you just described!! I even thought about slicing the fat off my legs thighs butt arms tummy and chin!!! I am a size 6 and I hate hate hate myself too. I hate when my bf touches my stomach as well because of my nasty stomach. Everything you said is everything that is in my head. I literally want to slice off my fat.. Ugh. I hate it. I hate that I am not skinny!!!!

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  • bobthebuilder44
    14 years ago

    Yes. My self confidence is very very low

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