Is it normal to have lousy orgasms

I am a female in my twenties and all my orgasms have been weak. If i had to rate them on a scale from one to ten. One being barely any pleasure...well most rate as 3 or 4. Is that normal?

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43% Normal
Based on 7 votes (3 yes)
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  • Uzzie101

    lol "well that orgasam was just plain lousy"

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  • dappled

    I can only presume it's the same for women as it is for men, but when you get the mind involved as well as the body, that's when you can really start ramping those scores up.

    Try and find something which really floats your boat and approach the subject over an hour or two, moving very, very slowly towards it and heightening anticipation all along the way. Even if this doesn't work for you, you've not lost anything.

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  • aussiewolf

    yeah that happens to me sometimes too. just depends on my mood and my level of horniness. if i am not horny then my orgasm isnt as intense. try teasing yourself, taking yourself almost to the point of no return then stop. keep doing this until you cant take it anymore and when you finally do have an orgasm, it will be very intense. try different toys and porn etc.

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  • girrrl

    You just need to get a new partner who is better at it or get a sex toy and do it to yourself.

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