Is it normal to have long labia?

I am in highschool and i have loing labia. I'm scared to do anything with a guy because of what they might think when they stick their hand down there trying to finger my and they can't get into the "hole" because my labia are in the way. I'm scared they're gonna be grossed out. I'm really self concious about it and i the reason my lasat boyfriend dumped me was becsaue i wouldn't let him do anything. I get anxious when i think about it. I found this great guy that i really love and idk what to do becsaue i want to have sex with him! But i don't at the same time! Please help!