Is it normal to have less passion in a relationship?

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Hey all, so I'm wondering what can I do to bring the passion back into my relationship with my boyfriend? Were both young but web been together 2 years and love eachother very much. The only problem is I don't feel as much excitment or as much passion as I did in the start. I kno that's normal but what can I do to get it back and keep it strong and growing? It's not that I feel bored but I do feel just like somtimes our relationship feels a bit "blah" and I want to feel the excitment, thrill and passion from when we first started going out! I mean who doesn't?! :) anyway stories about your love lives or advice is highly welcome:) thx

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Talk to him about it maybe he will find a way to suprise you and bring that excitement back.

    Or if you are feeling risky have sex in places where you might get caught.

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      11 years ago

      Yeah, the risky sex is great.

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      • plum6
        11 years ago

        I think its not all about the sex though (I admit, it does help). I think it is great that even though you clearly realize that things are not the way that they used to be you are still willing to fight for the relationship. I would suggest also trying new things together that do not involve sex but simply new experiences together could make a difference.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Passion eventually fades out to give place to some kind of friendship. You should try to go out more or surprise him by wearing lingerie. Maybe this would help.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Can't help yah there, I'm in the same boat. My current approach is to talk to him about it. I haven't been great about that though, so it's not happening. I suppose if I talked to him nicely about it instead of getting emotional and being a baby, it would have turned out better. As it stands though, I haven't tried anything, so I have no answers.

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  • (s)aint
    11 years ago

    I´ve been together with my B/f for almost four years now.Surely there´s those days things feels ...common. But the thing that do work is to maybe go away for a week, visit a friend that lives far off. When you miss someone,it´s so much better to return to his or her arms once more. I don´t know how much you guys hang out though. Me and my partner lit candles, go for walks, wrestles in bed and play games together. You should not accept the loss of passion! Drag it back into your lives.Spontanious things usually does the trick.

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