Is it normal to have involuntary thoughts about a guy you hardly know?

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There's this guy and I think about him ALL the time and can't stop thinking about him. I feel guilty and ashamed because although we know each other we hardly ever interact or run into each other. Sometimes I feel creepy and I can't even force myself to look at his facebook because I will feel like a stalker if I do so. I don't understand why I think about him. It happened recently and I've known him for a few years and then ine day i talked to him for a minute and he's stuck in my head. Now whenever I see him I can't compose myself because I feel guilty about the fact that I had probably just been thinking about him and I can't act normal around him.

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  • Mastersash
    13 years ago

    das cute

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It's like your reading my mind! I know this guy and Ive only talked to him a few times and I really like him. I've known him for a few years and this year he came to the talent show I was in and I thk it was caz he wanted to c me. I messed up big time b/c I was so nervous about playing my guitar in front of him and singing all b/c of him! But when i messed up everyine started clapping for me and i laughed it off, i know he was the one who started it bc he used to do tht stupid slow clap in my gym class. And he even called out my name egging ne on when u was finished. The bext week I was like obsessed with him and I cldnt get him out of my mind. I still like him and its been 5 obsessive months after the show.last ur I only liked him a little bit but now it's insane. Ur not alone I'm crazy too;)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    same for me but hes younger

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  • abbygail
    13 years ago

    same problem,
    I never look at his facebook page,
    because if I do I feel guiltyy. haa

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  • ratzruletheworld!!!
    14 years ago

    You kidding? If people said that it wasn't normal to have a crush, everyone in the world would be strange or weird or whatever you want to call it! (And if everyone was insane, then it would automatically make it normal, now wouldn't it?) :)

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  • behn37
    14 years ago

    yeah girl it happens to me too :)

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  • cougar
    14 years ago

    Yes, a very normal crush.

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  • regane
    14 years ago

    You have a crush my dear

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