Is it normal to have highs and lows in a relationship?

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I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months, and everything has been great up until the last month. For some reason, i either feel great being with him, or absolutely disgusted. And it's not him, he's a great guy, very respectful, smart, and considerate. But sometimes i feel like i just cant be around him, like i need to get away and that i dont want to be touched. Other times i really do love him, and feel very happy to be with him. I know my actions confuse him as much as they confuse me, and i feel bad treating him this way. Is this normal relationship behavior, and/or will it pass?

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Based on 71 votes (66 yes)
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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    i love my boyfriend more than anything but man do i hate him sometimes its normal

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    the honeymoon stage is over honey lol

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  • iHatemF
    14 years ago

    It's normal to feel that way once in awhile, but if this is affecting your relationship you might want to put some effort to stop.

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  • Adri
    14 years ago

    It is normal to feel completly irritated by your partner one day and enjoy them completly the next. I guess the question you have to ask yourself is are you happy. Just remember that after you get married your partners "bad qualities" double. If you can't stand him now then don't waste your time.

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  • brinkley
    14 years ago

    You can't expect to be attracted to someone 24/7, especially if you end up dating for a long time. Just make sure what's bothering you is not something you are compromising your happiness for

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