Is it normal to have had sex with a cousin

A few months ago a bunch of family and friends I haven't seen in a long time got together . There was maybe 100 total people some of whom I've never seen before . I saw my younger cousin April there who is 19 and I'm 26 for the first time in at least 5 years . She was so different from what I remembered . She was so pretty it was hard to believe it was the same person . So when I saw her and her family I went over and talked with them and April was being really shy and didint have much to say to me . Anyways later on that night after every one had a good buzz on I could to help but to look at her in a different way and I was really attracted to her and it was weird because she is my first cousin . After a while she came and talked to me and was getting really close and seemed to be almost flirting with me . She said things I did not expect her to like she had a crush on me when she was little and was excited to see me . I assumed she was saying these things because she had too much to drink. She asked if I could show her my new fifth wheel trailer I brought on and I agreed but I said it might look wrong if ppl see us go in my trailer with just the two of us . So we snook over to my fifth wheel and got inside . I showed her around and we sat and had a few drinks. After a half hour or so I said we should get out of here cause ppl would get ideas if they knew we were alone for so long . That's when she got up and locked the door and said that ppl were too drunk to notice us missing . Anyways one thing led to another and I don't want to say how it started but before I knew it she was performing oral sex on me which led to actual sex . It felt so wrong the whole time but she was so attractive and because I didint really know her it felt like I was with any other girl. Later on I told her that she should go cause it would be really suspicious if she was here in the morning . But she stayed the night with me and in the morning before she snook out we had sex again . Since then I haven't seen her because she lives 8hours away but she texts me every few days and has sent me nude photos and asks me to drive there on a weekend so we can get a hotel for a weekend while she tells her folks that she's with a friend . I said no that it needs to stop but she gets really really angry and threatens to tell ppl that I took advantage of her if I don't come to see her soon . What should I do ????

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  • TheMightyOz

    My second cousin seduced me when she was 17. Best vagina I ever slid my dick into. My penis is permanently limp now. I am just pathetic.

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    • I_steal_free_bread

      Haha I love this. Thanks for the chuckle :)

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      • TheMightyOz

        You wouldn't laugh if you had permanent ED.

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        • JupiterMaximus

          is it because she was so yummy that nobody else compares ? nobody has turned me on more than my cousin except for women.

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  • bmsa

    I have a similar story. My cousin lives in a different country, I have only seen her a couple times when we were kids. about 13 years later when she was 18 and I was 19 she came to my home to visit our family. I couldn't help myself but to find her very attractive. We were talking and at night when the family went to bed we ended up hooking up and having sex. It felt so wrong, but so good. HAHA. My point is.. Is it wrong to have sex with your cousin? YES.. Is it wrong to be attracted to someone after seeing them years later and wanting to be sexually pleased? NO.. You're not the first.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    that's legal in quite a few states you know

    and outside the US that's legal in quite a few countries

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    • captblood44

      legal in 21 states. 5 more conditionally. legal to co-habitat and have sexual relations in all but 8 states. kentucky is very strict. LOL

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    • ۩۞۩

      Is it legal to fuck cousins in the UK? Your expertise would be appreciated.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_marriage

        They're trying to discourage it of late in the UK however, citing genetic issues.

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      • Couman

        Yes. And marry them too if you like.

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  • BlackyHancock

    It's quite normal and has been going on since humans have been around. The increased risk of genetic issues is very small.

    So its best to check out whether it's legal in your state/country. Cousin marriage is legal in much of the world. It's legal where I live.

    The only worry is she said she's going to 'tell people you took advantage of her'. That says something about her character and could be a red flag.

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  • richmanjoe

    Close relatives can be intensely attracted to each other if they didn't grow up together.

    It is weird, not normal, but don't get her pregnant. I've known kids of first cousin marriages and they have medical problems.

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  • bfus

    I was fine with it until the part where she started blackmailing you and threatening to lie and say you took advantage of her sexually....? If she was being serious, that sounds like a crazy person willing to make false rape claims to manipulate you... in which case, keep your dick out of crazy

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  • 6377annjoe

    Are you crazy, she is one hot little bitch, and no cherry go to it man bang her brains out!

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  • (s)aint

    If you don't want to have sex with her again, don't do it. Best idea would be to just not reply to her any-more.

    But as others have said, it's just a cousin so if you DO want to continue- do it!

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  • Mr-Myrtos

    Just one thing.
    The most civilized world allows it.

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  • Mr-Myrtos

    All over Europe is allowed and supported by Catholic Church as well as other Churches.
    I live in a country were is allowed since ever and inside my family there is at least, as far as I remember now 7 first cousins marriages. High skill people in all in prominent places.
    Two of my first cousins are gay and married last year.
    We might have our own thoughts about issues like this but we must not forget there is another world thinking and making different around us.
    About 70% of the world do allow first and second cousins.
    The 30% left are most in USA States and in most Muslim countries.
    Anyhow all Islamic countries from North of Africa allow and many other Muslim and Islamic to. Some in the States as far as I listen are changing to.

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  • omar123

    for me it's fine, if I ha the chance to fuck my hour cousins I won't miss it, but it depends on you and your culture

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  • NiniCool

    What the fuck !?
    Having sex with your cousin is weird... It seems so wrong... Even if you were drunk.
    Well... you're in deep shit... ^^'
    But you shouldn't accept.
    I mean, don't do anything that you don't want to do.

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    • Mr-Myrtos

      So much religious and culture prejudice.
      You just live under a different culture and that's that. Doesn't make you better than others with a different culture. Nearly 70% of the world allows first and second cousins supported bu all different churches.
      Respect if you want respect and get some information about the issue before you judge it.
      Are you a Muslim? Coz they do judge just the way you do???

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      • NiniCool

        Bullshit. You don't know me.
        I'm european. It's legal to fuck your cousin in my country.
        I didn't recieve any religious education. I could be atheist, but I'm agnostic because I think this is the more reasonable option.
        I still think it's very weird.
        OP asked for opinion, I gave my opinion.

        Edit : Btw, I didn't say I was better than people who would fuck their cousin. I just think it's gross.

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        • Mr-Myrtos

          If you consider it an option it might be better to respect other people options, legal options in fact.
          You have been quite hard appreciating the issue using strong words, sentences. Somehow radical and radicalism is what I listen more every day on TV or read in the newspapers.
          It was your speech perhaps.
          There is something you don't mention or you don't care...
          Love, if there is Love between them.

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          • NiniCool

            I wasn't disrespectfull at all. You are being annoying.

            Did you even read the post ? He doesn't love her. He doesn't even know her at all. It was just and attractive girl, a one night stand.

            And now, she's threatening him of accusing him of being a rapist if he refuse to sleep wih her. How could he even want to have a true relationship with such a person ? (
            cousin or not cousin, it's a totally different issue)

            I don't see any love here.

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            • Mr-Myrtos

              I was generalizing about the issue. Relationships among cousins. Not sex crime.
              It was nice to change opinions with you. You kept a civilized speech with me all the way.
              Thanks for that.

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        • captblood44

          apparently its legal as hell in the u.s.a. too. its legal to marry your first cousin in 21 states. legal in 5 more conditionally. its legal to live with and have sexual relations with your first cousin in all but 9 states. its a criminal act like in 5 states?

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