Is it normal to have had gay experiences with your cousin?

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When i was about 13-14 i went on a trip for the weekend out in my nans caravan with my cousin who is slightly older then me by a year or so, i've never told anyone apart from now, but every night he always used to touch me and try and make me do sexual things with him, i always said no but one night he forced me into beating him off, after that he started to become obsessed with me and wanted to do things with me all the time, everytime we was alone together.. But when the trip over the weekend finished, i never saw him for over 3 years, im 17 now and i will see him for the first tme in ages at a relatives party, anyone got any advice for me? Please be serious im genuinly scared.. The party is in about 2 weeks

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    Your cousin, from what I can tell of the explanation, basically sexually assaulted you.

    If you said no and he still forced you to touch him, or he touched you, that's rape.

    Avoid being alone with him, and if you can avoid letting him be alone with any of your younger cousins. He might have "grown out of it" but he might not have.

    Telling a trusted adult (parent, uncle, aunt... anyone you feel you can tell) would probably be a good idea. What your cousin did was NOT okay.

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  • mtt
    10 years ago

    Do listen to people because somewhere I'm the back of ur mind u wanted to so stuff with him NO ONE NO MATTER WHO CAN FORCE U TO DO SOMETHING U DON'T WANT TO simple as that

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    You need to keep your distance from this beast, and tell you father or another person you trust NOW, so you'll have support in case he tries to get you alone.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    2 weeks is enough time to buy a small anal plug and shove it up your bum so that it will stop you from getting raped in 2 weeks.

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  • Couman
    11 years ago

    It's pretty normal. It's a shame your experience wasn't an enjoyable one. But I guess good and bad are both common.

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