Is it normal to have gone this long without sex?

I am tall and quite good looking, I'm 22 and live in a city with lots of students / young people but have a real problem approaching women as I get very anxious and fearful of rejection.. I haven't had sex in 2 years and feel it's been so long now it just fuels my anxiety and lowers my confidence.. I don't know what to do and it really eats away at me sometimes.

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  • DavidS.

    Have you ever tried getting help for your social anxiety? Also take it from someone who has it...sex does not make it go away...you can get a very temp. self esteem boost...but it wears off quickly...a really loving sexual relationship will help a little but again you still have that anxiety...

    a lot of social anxious people dont get help because they feel the anxiety is not there all the time amd they are functioning but trust me the anxiety probably is there all the time it just that it becomes stronger during those social interactions...

    you cant be healthy if you cant meet your needs for love affection and sex...

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    • dexer

      Thank you DavidS, that is the best reply I could have possibly hoped for.
      I am currently on a waiting list for therapy for my anxiety attacks.
      Thank you for your intelligent, understanding response David.

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