Is it normal to have girls i like run away but floozies come running?

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I always hear girls talking about attracting a-holes and that there are no good guys out there. I'm a 24 year old, well built, intelligent, and very outgoing guy. Any girl I want for sex or as a fling, I have no problem getting. My problem is if I really like a girl and respect her, don't just go after sex, I'll get the friend card or ignored, and if I go after sex, the girl falls hard for me but I lose interest. Is this normal and what do the women reading think i should do? I'm ready for a steady relationship but can't be with a girl I don't respect.

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  • norm
    12 years ago

    What is a floozy? Let me guess. A girl who engages in casual sex with a relatively large number of partners. Am I close?

    Maybe (PROBABLY) the girls you respect consider YOU a floozy.

    Ever consider that?

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    12 years ago

    nice guys finish last

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    If you have no problem having one-night stands and have them often you'll get this thing called a bad rep. Imagine a lady looking for a relationship, even though you're looking for a relationship too you come off as a guy that's only looking for relations.

    Also there's hypocrisy here, you've had plenty for partners but you don't want a floozy, a girl who had plenty of problems.

    I know two guys that do the one night stand thing too. One is my friend, the other used to be my friend because he's so bad it disgusts me and I ignore him. Sound familiar? "I'll get the friend card or ignored"

    What do you do? You fix your rep and keep it in your pants. I dare you to go a month without sex.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    Finding a good significant other is more difficult than getting laid and that is totally normal.

    I also believe that most women love it when a guy is trying to get into their pants. The approach taken appeals to them and that's why there's so many women complaining that all guys want is sex. In reality, they respond very well to the guy who approaches them for sex. When a guy approaches them more seriously it's not as much fun and all that and they don't go for it. Then they go on crying that all men want is sex when they are not ready to deal with the reality of things.

    That is not every woman at all times of course but most a man can not be magical 24/7 either.

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    no you can't. now that you know prepare for a life of meaningless relations untill you feel so bad about yourself that you go gay just because you are looking for a steady relation only to be abandoned by your sugar daddy by a younger sexier you =D

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