Is it normal to have friends with benefits when your dating somebody?

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I haven't done this before but a friend of mine has, is it normal?

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago | pl

    Yeah it's called cheating.

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    • cradlesuperman
      11 years ago

      Not if both people "dating" agree to it, then it wouldn't be cheating.

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      • christophero1973
        10 years ago

        Chances are if "both" people knew about it, the dating would cease...

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  • TT22
    11 years ago

    yes definitely cheating when the other party doesn't know about it...

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  • LostAndBroken
    11 years ago

    Yep cheating! REALLY bad form. Only a complete arsehole would do this.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    If the partner doesn't know? it's cheating, not FwB. If they do know and it's an open relationship then yes I guess, normal enough.

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  • lexy88
    11 years ago

    normal? sadly yes. cool? not at all.

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  • moomus
    11 years ago

    ^^^this

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  • randypete
    10 years ago

    Yes friends with benefits its Normal

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  • IBMelissaG
    10 years ago

    Hell yes!

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  • Jaydeah1992
    10 years ago

    I have a wife in she is so bored at times I would enjoy having a friend with benefits

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  • Kei
    11 years ago

    As long as the other person knows about it, it's alright. Having an open relationship works for some people although most of the time it leads to breaking up... I guess you have to really make sure that it's what you want and that everyone is in on the situation.

    Now, if the boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't know about the Friend with benefits, that's cheating and it's fucked up.

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  • opal-leaves
    11 years ago

    It's normal, but don't do it. You're better than that.

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  • Polan
    11 years ago

    Normal only if your girlfriend do it too.

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    I agree with quentari. If she doesn't know, it's unfair. She has a right to know the status of your relationship. If she doesn't accept, then man up, and make your choice.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I never friend what I fuck.

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