Is it normal to have friends that make fun of you?

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My story is I have some friends I have known forever and I don't think they like me. Every once in a while I will catch them talking behind my back. The are constantly making fun of me and telling me I look ugly and that my hair is stupid. I problem sound like a total baby but I have no idea what to do help me! Please no mean comments as u can see my life is hard enough right now please help me! Advice is good and comments thanks. P.S I'm a girl so no dude advice stuff

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  • Elle93
    11 years ago

    Aww that's so mean! This is exactly the reason I have no female friends. I always found they picked on me and were mean so I just made some great male friends. Although sometimes I wish I could have a girl's night, but I guess that's what I have my gay friends for! :) My advice is that you make new friends who love and appreciate you for who you are. You desreve at least that.

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  • Shrunk
    11 years ago

    Hmm, that's weird. Are you in high school? my ''friends'' would make fun of me too but to my face and not about appearance (thats pretty low if it isn't a mutual joke) but that i got nervous easily, was small and ''innocent'' (so they thought) etc. they were not really friends just people i had to hang out with at school so i wouldn't seem weird. they would also talk crap like that about whichever ''friend'' wasn't there at the time, about their hair or how they were dressed. it gets so annoying but I guess a lot of girls are like that sadly...

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  • bananaface
    11 years ago

    I'd usually say it's normal to talk behind someone's back and to make fun of your friends, but that just sounds a bit mean and sort of bitchy:/. Me and my friends always take the mick out of each other, but that's only because we find that sort of thing hilarious. Your friends sound like they're just insulting you.:( How do you they usually treat you?

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  • golden_showers
    9 years ago

    ooh I'm so glad I'm outta high school. things will get better. Sorry you have to deal with this stupid bitches.

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  • loveSeeker
    11 years ago

    Sorry to hear that, but i have also been through this situation back in high school.

    I just happened to shout on one of the friends whom i had to hang out with, the reason fo him being a friend is that i knew no one else that i could get close friendship and being in the same classroom.

    After the day i shouted on him about my feeling on him and his doing, he dramatically changed and stopped provoking men and my act of behavior.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    You should spend time around people who lift you up, not shove you down.

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  • manii92
    11 years ago

    Look up the definition for the word and you tell me if it's normal.. Have a good day .. =)

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yep it happens.

    You could just ignore what they say or you could fight about it.

    The choice is yours.

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  • foxyk
    11 years ago

    I agree with all these comments.. Which is also why I mostly had male friends in high school. I started hanging with more girlfriends my junior and senior year (people calm down a bit) but in junior high I went through the same thing u are telling me, except it wasn't over appearance which is really low! Anyone who makes fun of appearance and it isn't a mutual thing is serious and purposely trying to be mean (in my opinion) my girls and I sometimes say things to each other like "hey skank!" or "hey whore, how many dicks u sucked today? Lol but we aren't really making fun of each other, just joking around... I would say your friends are rude and not real friends ... Let them know it upsets you... Unless you already have???

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  • HarmonyJB
    11 years ago

    Well I'm in highschool eight now and, I have some friends who ocassionaly call me weird, or retarded behind my back, but after I just ask them why, and what did they do that for? They say I don't know. Everybody, and I mean everybody says I don't know.. So your so calle friends, probably arn't your "real" friends.. I'm sorry. Of I were you, I wouldn't let them do that! I would stick up for myself, and go ask they why their doing this! Don't take I don't know for an answer! An if they say, I'm sorry but, we just don't like you anymore, find better friends! They can't be your real friends if they call you that! It's rude, and unessecary! Nobody should be treated that way, and especially not you! I hope this helped! :)

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