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Since past few days I started having fantasies of someone forcing himself upon me and I don't have a choice other than enjoying it problem is I don't get turned on without thinking about these fantasies now I really want to be forced on having sex
Common to have, but be careful. The closest thing is consent to no consent play. Its complicated but I have done it, reply if you want details.
Okay. First thing to know : it is more risky by nature. It is a more pleasure but more risk situation, so be aware. What you should do is first try and find a trusted partner. I would not recommend doing it with someone you haven't had regualr sex with first or someone you don't know well. So once you have someone you know and really trust, its time to talk about it. What you need to do is imply consent beforehand, but leave out the chicken exit. So essentially, its like a BDSM scene with power exchange, except no safe word is used. So this way, there is no way for you to regain controlbif you change your mind halfway in. So plan it ahead of time. You tell him what he should do to ypu when he 'rapes' you. Then it is up to him when he decides to do it, and he can try to catch you by surprise. Make sure he knows what times of day not to do it so you don't miss work or something. It could also be fine tuned if you try it a few times, but always remember to only do it with someone you trust, and make sure you understand the risks.