Is it normal to have feelings for the same sex?

Well I have this friend. And she's one of my closest ones, but I'm having feelings for her and I don't understand what they could mean. I'm not a lesbian, but I can't shake these feelings that I'm having for her. I need help.

What should I do? Please, no rude comments...

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Comments ( 12 )
  • thenbhdjesse

    I think you might be in denial out of fear but I'm here to tell you as a lesbian, it gets easier babe I promise. Girls are way too perfect to be terrified to like them. They make me believe in good things and now I'm proud of who I am. it took 5 years to learn to accept this, but I'm okay with it now and you will be too one day. maybe you are just bi

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  • strangethingshappen

    Dont listen to the others - Just cause u have feelings for 1 gurl doesnt mean your bi. We cant help who we connect with regardless of gender.

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  • peterrabbyt

    I am a man and love having another man suck my cock. Just sayin'

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  • The_unknown_fate

    If you say that your not a lesbian. You might bisexual. But there is nothing wrong with having feeling for the same sex, lots of people do. As for what to do i think you should tell her how you feel, if she's a true friend she will still be your friend and you can get it of your chest!

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  • acefreakzero

    Hey I read this girl's diary and it said "I see the girl I want, she's at my school"
    Don't tell your friend about your feelings she may get creeped out.
    I know I was.

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  • Happens to heaps of people. I did experimenting with my friend in high school and it was kool. So see if shes up for some experimenting and enjoy!

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  • maybe you are jost close to her like closer than a sister and you cant imagine living without her...... like me but im not a lesbo!!!!

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  • CountryRoads

    In response to the title...homosexuality is kind of a common thing. I don't know if you've heard of it.

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  • fourberry

    Normal, you could be bi or just wanting to experience and you're friend is probably attractive.

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  • nocomment

    Ive been through the same thing, we did some "stufff" but now im over it. Its all good and were still best buds

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  • dinz

    In addition to TyLee it could be also a phase in life.

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  • TyLee

    It just means that you are probably bi. Don't worry just explore your feelings at your own pace. It can be really overwhelming at first but it's totally normal :)

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