Is it normal to have feelings for my first..

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I lost my virginity when I was 14 and I'm now 19. He was also a Virgin and I'm not with the guy I lost my virginity to now but he was my first love and I can't help but think about him and dream about him pretty much every day and night. I always think about re connecting with him but I'm scared he won't be interested, so I guess my question is, do guys not hold on to those feelings for there first loves like a lot of girls do?

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  • buckfutter
    11 years ago

    I'm a guy. This happens to us, too...

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  • nikki99
    7 years ago

    I just recently found my first love on fb and its doing a number on me. Its been like 27 yrs since we dated. But I still have feelings for him. He doesnt want me. It hurts. But im dealing with it. I dont really understand the feelings I have for him. They are all mixed up. Its a feeling of rejection, fond memories and that first love feeling. I guess thats whats causing the pain. I dont want to rekndle a relationship. I dont know what I want. It just hurts

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  • ucipher8
    11 years ago

    I still think about my first because it was also my last. The thought of her turns me on

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yep.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    First loves, always have a special place in your heart and his, seek him out!

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  • BurnaBaby27
    11 years ago

    Aww! Try to get into contact with him.
    I was in the same boat, I felt like I was obsessing over my first love. I was 15 and he was 16. We lost contact for almost five years. I deactivated my facebook acount at one point, and reactivated it about a year later and upon doing so, I had quite a few friend requests, one was from him. We reconnected and it's like nothing's changed :}. Been together ever since!

    I will love facebook forever for bringing him back to me.

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  • Saycheese
    11 years ago

    Guys do have the same things happen to them and sometimes I really do wonder if it happens more to a guy than a woman truthfully. It just seems like to me anyways. :)

    But I think the guys responses on here are too sweet. :)

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    I'm a guy, and I still love my first love like it's the end of the world.

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