Is it normal to have feelings for multiple females?

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I have a problem, I tend to get attached quite easily to women. I try talking to one girl and she starts liking me, then I talk to another as a backup in case the first girl doesn't want to go out or do anything. I now talk to like 3 girls and have no idea where I'm going with all of this. Is this normal? In no way would I cheat on a girl if I were dating one but as I see, I'm not exclusive to any single girl right now.

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  • plum6
    11 years ago

    I think it's normal too and have a similar experience myself. I think it is also largely about the attention that these girls give you, at least in my opinion the ego plays a pretty large role in the matter.

    It is a great ego boost for a guy to be liked by any woman and I feel it's pretty addicting and satisfying to be able to be able to maintain the interest of several women. It is just a bit of nature and instinct that is still in our brain I guess.

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  • NoraBaker
    11 years ago

    I feel for you. I've got a much better deal than that. I have feelings for just one male who gives me multiple orgasms.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    Haha:D Sounds like me some years ago. I had three crushes. Except they were boys and I'm a girl.

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    So long as you're prepared for them to be offended if they find out about each other, especially if they find out you consider them "backup" - I've had a guy friend talk like that before and needless to say when the girls involved found out they were not impressed. You've also got to be prepared to tell the other two (or however many there are by then) that you're not interested in them if you actually start dating one of the others.

    By all means keep the doors open, but when you decide to step through a door make sure you close the others. That sounded sexual somehow! :P

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  • lillypoppy
    11 years ago

    I think its normal.you just have a lot of love :) just don`t go making them think its something more then it is..like..don`t so be shady about it maybe you should even tell them about each other.I can imagine its not fun finding out you were one of many all along. its a lovebeat

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  • FocoUS
    11 years ago

    Calm down. No more "backup." Look for another girl after you get rejected not while you're still with one. If you're not in an 'exclusive' mood then don't do relationships at all or at least not serious ones.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    If by feelings you mean boners then yes.

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  • Wüstenfuchs
    11 years ago

    A little quote I laughed at a while back in high school: "Women want to have sex as many times as possible; men want to have sex with as many things as possible."

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  • theytookthisone
    11 years ago

    It happens. Maybe you fear commitment in some way?

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    "Backup".

    Eek! Eek! Eekems! :O

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    • shuggy-chan
      11 years ago

      well dappled as a fellow chick magnet you can feel this guys pain thou, i mean it so hard to choose just one

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      • dappled
        11 years ago

        Ahh, but you've always been the one for me, Shugs. I was so heartbroken by rejection, I've even had to *gasp* flirt with women!

        It's your fault! :P

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        • shuggy-chan
          11 years ago

          well i was just showing you the way to being become a gigolo my son

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          • dappled
            11 years ago

            You taught me well, Obi Wan Shugnobi... now show me that thing with your glowing pink sabre again!

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            • shuggy-chan
              11 years ago

              well idk if you can handle the "force" well enough, remember last time....

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  • rhythmness93
    11 years ago

    lol

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