Is it normal to have feelings for girls around the 5th grade?

Ok im 18 and i work at dq, these little girls come sometimes and i like talking to them, and i can't help but have feelings for them. Non sexual fyi; rather i'd want to live the rest of my life with a girl at that age... I dunno, mabey its cuz the girls i see are so darn pretty

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  • Avant-Garde

    You say that it's not "sexual", but yet you say that they are "pretty" and you that say you "rather want to live the rest of your life with a girl at that age".

    That's not normal. I don't think you should work with children. You clearly have a problem. I don't know if this has been occurring a long time or a short time. Either way, you sound like a pervert. Stop working with those kids, you need help! O.0

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    • That first sentence was precisely what I was thinking; I mean, when he says it's nonsexual, I also have a very hard time believing him.

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    • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

      hes not saying their hot gosh

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  • shuggy-chan

    i just hope they are a sort of "big brotherly" feelings, but the really creepy part was were you said you want to spend the rest of your life with girls that age. ehhhh. thats pedobearish dude.

    i mean there a young kids i feel affestion for, but its in a big brotherly way, like i want to be the person they can look up to, and ask for advice and protection, but yours seems less innocent.

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  • Anime7

    This seems rather creepy I'm sorry. I don't you should be calling 5th graders pretty. However, all it really sounds to me is that you want to be a kid again and have a pretty girl as your best friend. I think that's normal.

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    • Charmo

      So, you say it's creepy to call fifth graders pretty, then go on to say that you think he wants to be friends with pretty fifth graders...
      Creep.

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      • Anime7

        I said he wanted to be a KID again, who's best friends with a pretty girl. That I believe is a normal thought. However, calling 5th graders pretty is creepy. I was merely stating that the OP seems to want to be a child again.

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    • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

      what he means is that he enjoys having them around and there PRETTY not HOT when i was in 5th grade i thought some 8th graders were cute sooooo....

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  • Coolkat

    i have crushes on young girls

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  • Dozis

    Nooo! That's not right!

    Well hello there cutie. How you doing? You must be having a very hard time in school. I'm not saying you are dumb or anything, I didn't mean it that way. It's just that... school must have gotten so difficult since I dropped out of it. Did you choose these clothes? You got a good sense of fashion. That's good. You can always try becoming a fashion artist or something. Oh look, what a coincidence! I happen to have some very rare books on the subject. Don't worry, it's actually mostly pictures. They are about the history of fashion. All the clothes that have ever been designed are drawn in that thing. Well except for a few models. But all the important ones are there! I like Egyptian fashion. I mean, look at this chick, she looks good uh? With all these golden rings all over her arms and this skimpy kalasiris.. are you listening to me? Oh you already started drawing. Just don't do it on the book. Please. Here, do it on this notepad. Wow. you are good, you might become the new female Valentino. (not really, she sucks)(ouch)

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    • Shackleford96

      Have you ever considered writing a book?

      Seriously, have you?

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  • when I see a 5th grader my bro's age I just think there's a brat going by and I start to feel a headache.. I think your um feeling need a little(LoT!!) prioritising!!

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  • BluntsRolled

    Fifth grade really though? Though i know a couple 14yr ould I wood poke, but not any lower then that..... like really? 5th?

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  • iEnjoyLickingToes

    Pedophile! Have a lick of your toes instead!

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  • Fifi_la_Fume

    STOP RIGHT THERE PERVERT!!!!!!!!!
    Just kidding XD, search a wife, if you had one already, let's think about sons.

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  • Curiousguy6969

    Nothing wrong with it at all little girls turn me on I think about them almost all the time and get a huge hard on but I never act on it cuz it can really screw with there heads as they grow up

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    • No it helps them mature 🤗

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  • Abovenormal

    Yea, its normal. I'm just like you, when i look at pretty little girls, its breathtaking and stuns my heart. I fantasize about having a young bride, but just don't get into trouble.

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  • MyRandomMoments

    I'm sorry dude, but you have the makings to being a pedo...this is awkward >.>

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  • Im444

    You are probably attracted to young innocent girls! You don't watch them get changed for p.e do you??

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    • Coolkat

      not at all

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    what kind of feelings are you talking about? I mean these are 12 or 13 year olds just going into puberty.

    are you talking 'big brother' feelings
    or enjoying that the girls have crushes etc?

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    • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

      10&11

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      • Enjoy 🤗

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    • Coolkat

      as in an infatuation

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  • Charmo

    Have you ever had a girlfriend before? Is so, at what age did you start dating?

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  • emotionalwreck4ever

    creep . you should not have feelings for them or it can get worse...

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